I Love Me!

I hear women (friends, family, clients…even strangers)……tell me all the time they don’t love themselves…

They don’t like this about themselves….etc.

BUT…..they will when they reach a certain physical goal….

REALLY?!

Cause let me tell you what 10 years ago I had what I thought was a dream come true: thigh gap!

And I was miserable!

What I didn’t know was I had obtained that thigh gap because of a thyroid and adrenal malfunction…..my body was literally burning itself up!

All I knew at the time was I had finally achieved a coveted goal….and I still didn’t love myself!

And when my body started to heal….I started to put muscle mass back on…..I started to look healthier and feel healthier…..yet I still didn’t love me!

How I started to truly love me…..no matter what I looked like….was connecting to my inner me….my soul…..and really working on my self talk….my mindset….

I started pulling out ALL the tools in my toolbox…..and went to work on my TRUE healing of SELF LOVE!

I can honestly say I LOVE ME!

This doesn’t mean I don’t have physical goals. This doesn’t mean I don’t have health goals.

What this means is I don’t judge me!
I don’t compare me!
I don’t bully me!

I only love me….and the skin that I’m in!

Are you ready to TRULY love you?!

Hugs and prayers always,

Kelly 😘

STOP the Stress & Anxiety of today!

Today is going to be full of many emotions…

We have choices with those emotions.

Use your tools of prayer, tapping, aromatherapy, grounding, journaling, walks, anything that will bring you peace in your heart and soul!

Hugs and prayers always,

Kelly 😘

Silence on Sunday

I haven’t been on here for almost a month now….ugh….but honestly I just didn’t want to add to the chatter…..I didn’t want to add to ALL the conflicting info on the virus that has become so big that it is THE only thing everyone is talking about and….arguing about!

Whether it is about the face-mask…..the stay-at-home orders….the social distancing….and so much more!

One thing I do know is I don’t want to be among those telling other’s what is right or wrong….what they should or shouldn’t be doing….

What I will say is that this blog will remain true to the spirit of it is about MY LIFE AND HEALTH JOURNEY…..and what I AM DOING to support myself and how I am handling things…..

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Because that is the compassionate, loving, and most graceful way to share and soften hearts about anything!

I have seen simple posts on people’s Facebook pages go from sharing info about something they are feeling passionate about…..to it turning into mud-slinging…..and that’s not healthy or helpful for ANYONE….

I do have some personal stories I am going to share in a later post….stories about how the coronavirus has been impacting my family and our life…..and my own journey…..but it will never be me telling you what you should or shouldn’t be doing….

What I will encourage you today to do is…stop and smell the air, the flowers, the beauty of what God has given us!

Stop and reflect on who is the creator of chaos and confusion?  NOT GOD!

Once we understand this simple truth….then what is truly simpler is when you find yourself arguing about a point of view so intently are you sharing love and hope with them or are you helping the enemy create division and destruction?!

Today stop and meet someone where they are at in this journey of life and love them where they are at rather than trying to force or bully them to see your point of view!

One final thought….my darling daughter shared a while back how her homeschool group was discussing events and wars in history.

They were asked by the leader what they thought was the number one cause of war.   

She responded under her breath: men.

How right was she?  What she meant by it was that because of hate, pride, greed, ego….ie our fallen-ness…..WE are the cause of war!

But you know what…..the solution is right in front of us…..

Because this is one of the fundamental key things that amazing and great leaders teach…..which is if we are the cause of our problem…..WE ARE ALSO THE SOLUTION!

Today be the solution: 

share and spread LOVE HOPE AND HEALING!

As always….sit….pray….journal…..tap and oil up as you reflect on these words and on your day!

Many hugs, blessings, and prayers,

Kelly 😉

 

 

Just Say NO!

Do you struggling with saying NO to others?

I want you to think about every time you say yes to everyone else you are saying NO to you!

You’re saying NO to your health, NO to your dreams, NO to your goals!

This is not selfish….this is true self care!

The more we say YES to us and our needs the more we are able to shine and be the best version of our self for others….therefore spreading amazing love and light!

Oils that help us with saying NO:

💜Clove -helps us maintain boundaries

💜Spearmint- helps us speak up; use our voice.

💜Bergamot- helps us have the confidence to believe in ourself and in our needs.

💜Grapefruit- helps us remember we are to love ourselves.

Which oil helps you say NO to others so you can say YES to you?

40 Days to Freedom

If you have hung out with me here for any amount of time you know I am a huge advocate of all types of fasts: Spiritual, Nutritional, Absolute, Intermitent….etc.

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For me it does not matter what type of fast I go into it is always taken into prayer…..and sometimes it is actually given to me through prayer and then me re-taking it into prayer so I can hear clearly what I am supposed to be doing.

But one of the biggies I usually do with a fast is I usually do not share with many people;  usually only 1 or 2 are brought into it.  And that is because it was spoken into me shortly after my huge transformation with fasting in the beginning.  God pressed it into my heart that all fasts forward were to remain private unless told otherwise.

Well here I am years later Him telling me loud and clear…..this one is too big for you….you need to be united with others….lots of others.

Why?

Because there is a HUGE DISCONNECT with who we are as people and in our healing.

There are sooo many hurting people turning to sooo many different types of addictions (drugs, alcohol, pornography, food, shopping, apathy, body…etc).   And why?  To avoid the work of healing.  And why?  Because healing is hard work!

Healing means you have to be willing to go THROUGH the pain….not around it.

Healing means you have to open your eyes to and bring to the front what you have been avoiding.

So on September 2-October 12, I will be entering into a fast that is intentional in praying for people who are struggling with addictions.

I think we probably ALL know someone who is burdened by addiction.  Who has been enslaved by the lies of its soothing denial of the truth.

I can’t do this alone.

So regardless if you enter into a fast or just add extra prayers during those 40 days….are you open to add the intentional prayers for those struggling with addictions?

When we CONNECT our prayers and spirits together we truly CAN move mountains!

Have an amazingly blessed day and labor day weekend!

My hugs and prayers are always with each and every one of you!

blessings,

Kelly 😉

PS…want to learn all about the types of fasts?  Just do a search here on my blog with the keyword ‘fasting” and you’ll come up with ALL the times I have written about fasting and the ways we can approach this powerful spiritual and physical tool!

PPS….check out the updates in the tabs above…..some awesome stuff ;)!!!

 

Clear the Mental Chatter

I have been wrestling with some internal work…..which is good but man it’s exhausting sometimes…..lol….

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So reminding myself of my pillars of health have been super helpful!

I have always found it interesting that when I am teaching and/or coaching with others……or putting together workshops…..well what ever the topic is seems to be exactly what I am needing at that time as well….I just didn’t realize it…lol….

As I have been diving deeper into prepping for a workshop I am having on the 6th….it’s been bringing up some of the old junk and yuck of my journey with dysmorphia!

Which has me realizing that I MUST continue to do the mental and emotional work…..which means….I MUST be working on my sleep, stress levels, and toxin load…..because those all contribute to my mental chatter: negative or positive.

I also realized that by not coming on here….and sharing with you all I wasn’t helping myself……and I DEFINITELY wasn’t serving, supporting, and loving you the best I could.  Because we all need each other…..we are connected through this great big world….and even if I can’t sit down and physically have a cup of tea with you….doesn’t mean I can’t show up here and have tea with you!

I think sometimes in the big world of blogging, FB, Instagram, and all other sorts of social media we forget to truly show up and connect….the same way we would at tea or a dinner party.

We get caught up in thinking we must have pictures just perfect…..so many hashtags….and all the other chatter…..and we forget just showing up is what is important.  Staying connected is what is important.

So this is me staying connected…..let you know that I have so much to share with you and I promise to quit thinking it all has to be “perfect”…..quit thinking you won’t want to hear this or that…..and to quit comparing what I am doing to what others are doing!

Because I am ME….and no one else can be ME!  And you need ME…..just as I am…..just like I need each of you to be just as you are!

Because WE ARE ENOUGH!

Have an amazingly blessed day.

Hugs and prayers always,

Kelly 😉

Save the Date

Good morning!

Can you believe it….Easter is tomorrow 🙌!

A quick reminder for all you lovely’s who live locally to me….save your seat…..there is going to be not only the regular drawing but a special something for EVERYONE to take home!!!

Sooo…even if you’re not local it’s a great place to come visit 😘😘😘…

I hope you will be able to join me for Mays wellness workshop all about the 4 systems that an AromaTouch technique is addressing and supporting!!!

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On a separate note…..I had some serious aha’s and thoughts these last few days during Holy Thursday mass and Good Friday services!

I look forward to sharing more with you soon!

Until then…you’ll have an amazingly blessed Easter tomorrow and remember to always….

Sit….pray….journal…tap….and oil up each day for the transformation you seek!!

Hugs and blessings always,

Kelly

Transformation Tuesday

I started out this year with purposing myself to hop on to Facebook EVERY TUESDAY to provide support and service with a facebook live.  I do this on my public page Kelly Frick: Connect as well as in two other groups:  my private clients and my team of leaders.

What started out as me wanting to be super intentional and consistent in showing up for something…..has turned into an amazing transformation in my own health….we are talking my mental health…..and how it effects my physical health.

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You see because of the traumas I experienced in my past….my fight, flight, freeze was always on hyper-alert.  And dysmorphia definitely distorts that and makes it even more intense.

So my excuse factor for why I couldn’t do something, show up somewhere, and keep a schedule was always…well full of excuses.

Over the years with ministry and business I have worked more and more on this.  But 3 years ago I made a commitment to myself that I had to truly think before I committed to something so I wouldn’t back out at the last minute.  So that once I set a date, put something on the schedule or told someone I would be there…..I HAD TO DO IT!!!

It was hard at first…..because it is not that I didn’t want to be true to my word….but you have to understand…..trauma….particularly sexual abuses…..creates this distortion in the brain that EVERYTHING is a potential danger.

I wanted to once and for all be braver and start rewiring my brain to believe and KNOW it was okay to have an amazing ministry and business, to support women, to be the best version of myself.

And that is what I have done.

I have consistently been showing up EVERY TUESDAY for a Facebook Live…..and every week I schedule wellness calls with clients…..every month I provide a wellness workshop…..AND I DO NOT CANCEL ON MYSELF OR ON THEM!!!

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What have you cancelled on that was due to your fight, flight, or freeze being in hyper alert?!

Sit with this….pray about it…..journal….tap….and oil up!

Many blessings always,

Kelly 🙂

PS….

Here is today’s Transformation Tuesday about preventative care…..

PPS…..

Get started today with this kit (click here).

Want a different kit?  (click here to create your own)

Once I receive a notification of your enrollment….I will reach out to you to get your first of many wellness calls set up to help you set up a 90 day coaching plan that will address YOUR WELLNESS GOALS, how to use your essential oils, plugged into private coaching and group…..and a welcome package will be mailed out to you!

What are you waiting for!?

 

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