UNPLANNED: Hope, Healing, Health

Words cannot describe the pain…the sorrow….the utmost intense emotions I felt last night…

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Yet the excitement….the joy…..the peace and healing….

Actually there is another time I felt the same exhaustion from a movie…..the Passion by Mel Gibson.

Last night my family and I attended a “red carpet” event of Unplanned.  Our parish church organized a viewing of the movie before it was to be released today.

Actually it was a woman from our church, who organized this event, who is truly passionate about serving others and bringing about light to the world.

This was not an easy movie to watch, for many reasons.

One…I know Abby Johnson!  I’m not close intimate friends with her….but one of my dear friends is!  She attends our parish, she is on the parish counsel with my husband, and I have had the blessing to visit with her on a few occasions at different gathers.

She IS a warrior woman!

She is a beautiful example of what I share here all the time….and at workshops……and presentations……which is:

TELL YOUR STORY!

Get it out of you….don’t allow it to hold you in shame…..in bondage!

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None of us have a pretty bow wrapped story.  They are all varying shades of messy.  But when we hide them deep within us we are allowing the enemy to separate us from our most amazing, loving FATHER!

Abby Johnson was brave and bold to share her story to THE WORLD!  And that alone will continue to be her true healing path.

Being open and honest about your story is a powerful instrument….tool…..of healing.

It is a way to forgiveness……GOD ALREADY FORGIVES US AND LOVES US…..but sometimes we stay in bondage of pain and shame and hurt…..because we haven’t forgiven others…..or most likely we haven’t FORGIVEN OURSELVES.

That un-forgiveness can lead us to so much pain but most of all it can and will effect our health…..first our emotional health…..then our mental…..and finally our physical!

Because the body is an amazing creation!  Our body knows it’s connected to our mind, our heart, our spirit, our emotions.  It doesn’t try to separate all that we are made up of, as so many doctors or even us, try to do too often.

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For me this movie was moving beyond words…..and also very healing.  Knowing that the anniversary of the loss of my sweet precious Sam is this weekend, and the D&C that took place on the 1st…..well let’s just say lent is already a difficult time for me most years…..yet also healing and renewing…..but this movie definitely had me doing some ugly crying!

It had me reflect on my own path of life…..my own wounds……my own pain and choices.

I have always been a huge pro-lifer……but I use to not always be as loving and compassionate in how I approached the subject.

And after one of my rapes….even being a pro-lifer…..there was a brief moment of panic when I thought…..”what if I get pregnant?”…..

And finally my saddest thought that took me quite a bit to heal from was when I did loose my precious baby several years back……the shame I had of relief!

My husband and I had struggled for so many years to conceive our daughter and had fought super hard to try to have another. We had finally given into the peace of:  it was not meant to be.

Yet when our daughter was nearly 8 we discover we are pregnant, I was less than thrilled.  All of a sudden I was having to figure out how I was going to adjust to all the changes it was going to bring.  We had BIG plans that year….we had a routine.  WE WERE COMFORTABLE.

I should’ve been thrilled but I wasn’t.  I had just gotten my health back on track and here this precious baby growing inside of me was going to create havoc with all that.   I was selfish in my thoughts.  That’s not too harsh….it’s the truth.

My dearest of friends consoled me and comforted me.  She was with me through the whole journey.  She would ask me the nitty gritty questions….the hard questions.  And would remind me deep down what I really felt.  Which was that I REALLY DID WANT THIS BABY BUT I WAS AFRAID TO WANT IT!  Because what if…..!?

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And then WHAT IF DID HAPPEN……and I felt the immense amount of guilt and shame.  I blamed myself for waaay too long.  But luckily by that point in my journey I had my safe people that I could be vulnerable and honest with….like this friend…..and know I wouldn’t be judged for having human thoughts and feelings.

Many people will go to this movie because they support the cause…the message….the truth.

Many will NOT go to it because they don’t want to hear it.

Some will even waiver because it was given the rating of R…..which is hogwash….our daughters under 18 can go to have a legal abortion but not old enough to go to this movie!?

But I think EVERYONE SHOULD GO FOR THE REDEMPTION MESSAGE they will receive from it.

This movie is about so much more than exposing PLANNED PARENTHOOD……its truly about LOVE, FORGIVENESS, JOY, PEACE…..HEALING!

Have you had an ugly kind of cry recently?  I honestly think everyone should about 2-3 times a year….it’s cleansing for the soul….cleansing for the emotions…..and yes cleansing for the body!

Go to this movie….have an ugly cry…..sit with it…..pray about it…..tap and oil up……and see how it moves your emotions, mind, heart, soul, energy in a different direction!

Many blessings and hugs always dear ones,

Kelly 🙂

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To learn more….Unplanned premiers TODAY, March 29 at a theater near you.

To see the trailer and find the nearest theater visit https://www.unplannedfilm.com

For resources on post-abortive counseling and support visit http://hopeafterabortion.com

For other resources and ways to find assistance with a crisis pregnancy in your area visit

http://www.priestsforlife.org/crisis.html

If you would like to know about 40 Days for Life visit https://40daysforlife.com

For more information about Abby’s ministry, And Then There Were None, which helps abortion worker get out of the industry visit https://abortionworker.com

 

Set the World on Fire!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME….welcome Lent!

LOL….today instead of celebrating with luxurious foods, wine….indulging in ways most of us do to celebrate another year of life…..

I will be celebrating with Fasting and ashes!

I don’t recall in the past when my birthday fell on Ash Wednesday…..it obviously has in the past…..but I really don’t remember when.  That’s not of importance….lol.  Instead what is of importance is WHAT AM I GOING TO DO WITH THIS YEARS BIRTHDAY GIFT?!

I could grumble and say it’s not fair that my birthday fell on Ash Wednesday…..or I could say hmm it’s my birthday I am going to celebrate however I want….

Nope…I look at it as an amazing gift….a reminder of why I am even here!  A reminder that there is SOOO much more to this amazing life…..AND I HAVE SO MUCH TO GIVE, TO DO, TO BE!!!

As you enter into Lent….what are you going to focus on?  As your next birthday comes around, or if it just did, how are you going to celebrate the life you have been gifted?  How are you going to set the world on fire?!

Sit….pray…..journal…..tap…..and oil up on this amazingly blessed day!

hugs and prayers always,

Kelly 🙂

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This weeks TRANSFORMATION video is about our pillars of health!

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Tips….recipes and more with this months oils and products!  March Tab above has more details….don’t miss out on some great info!

Essentially Empowered!

I pray your weekend is proving to be awesome….relaxing….not too much crazy back to school hustle!

As I have been writing this book…..it has been reminding me just how super important to continually fill myself up with goodness….prayer….EFT….using my oils…..empowering food choices…and intentional mindset.

But it also excites me because I have been able to really dig in and get involved with different people and entities.  We are going to be able to be of service and support to each other.

Internal work is a continual process….no one ever truly arrives!  This is not meant as a discouraging statement but rather an encouraging statement!  Meaning we constantly have the opportunity to:

BE THE BEST VERSION OF OURSELVES!!

I am so passionate about helping others understand and learn more about how essential oils can meet 80% of your health and wellness needs.

Your whole health: mind, body, soul, spirit!

This week I am offering 4 days with 4 different times a: SIMPLE ESSENTIALS 30 minute presentation that will empower you to start taking charge of your health.

You will gain transformation information to start your health journey of hope and healing!

What will you learn:
💧What is an essential oil.
💧How to use an essential oil.
💧Why to use essential oils, most importantly why sourcing matters.
💧What are the basic simple top 10 oils.
💧What are the two most popular ways to startup
💧How you can get started with me.

💜This presentation/class is about empowering you and informing you, so when you are ready to start your journey I’ll be here to support you, serve you, and bless you!

💜Until then I will hold all the intention of hope and healing for you!

💜I’ll be here to coach you every step of the way!

💧So let’s just start the conversation and learn what the heck all these oils are and how they can support your health….how they can transform your life!

So I hope you will join me one of the 4 days this week….because YOU ARE WORTH IT!

As always…please dear one remember….YOU ARE ENOUGH….and you are in my prayers…
Lots of hugs and blessings…
Kelly Frick

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www.kellyfrickconnect.com

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Back on Track…

I’ve been so very aware of how beautiful and grown up my daughter is and looks recently.  I think it is because she is the age I was when I started dating and when I started to really make choices that mucky-ed the water between the moments that were true abuse and the moments that were choices because of the abuses.

Yet I have such peace because I know with my entire being that no matter what life throws at me or at her GOD IS BIGGER than it all.  So I truly don’t walk in fear anymore of anything!

I am able to truly experience the gift of JOY even in the midst of anything!

The next chapter of my book is the turning point of the story…..I MET MY AMAZING HUSBAND!  Oh there were still abuses that unfortunately took place for several more years….but now I had hope.  Hope that it would all end!

May this chapter provide healing and hope for you with your past abuses, traumas!

Many blessings and prayers always my dear one!!

Kelly 🙂

PS….before you read the next chapter…..are you ready to start? Start a journey of healing and hope?  There is some amazing deals I would love to share with you that will be ending on July 31st!  That is right around the corner…so reach out and lets connect so I can share with you all the amazing FREEBIES you WILL receive with oils and coaching for this month only!

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CHAPTER 9:  A LIGHT IN THE MIDDLE OF THE DARKNESS

I was 18 when I met my husband.  We met shortly after I had completed boot camp.  I laugh to this day when I share the story of how upset I was with God for having introduced him to me so young.  I had plans.  I had my check off list of all I needed to do and accomplish before I was to meet the man I was to marry.  But really when I look back at it, I was hiding from the possibility of a true relationship.  I pretty much was at a place in life where I really wanted nothing more to do with men.  I had actually only started to have a glimpse during boot camp of sexual harassment and pressures, but enough to pretty much decide I really wanted NOTHING more to do with men.

So when I met my husband and I knew he was who God intended for me, I was scared!  Somewhere deep down my spirit knew it meant I was going to have to do some internal work and I wasn’t ready for it.   The work started even earlier than I could have imagined.   My darling husband and I connected with deep conversations pretty early on.  We felt free to talk and debate just about everything.  So it wasn’t too surprising to me when he asked me about my 1st sexual experience.   When I described it to him, he is the one who validated I had been raped. It was freeing to hear it out loud what I thought was true but there was so much confusion within me that I just didn’t know.  I had so much shame and hurt.

He was the beginning of ME feeling whole and feeling cherished and protected, but it came with baggage as well.  I felt I had to prove I wasn’t broken goods; that he wasn’t going to be saddled with someone who couldn’t be a wife in all manners.  So once again I allowed boundaries to be crossed.  Now since he was not raised the same way I was about faith and waiting for marriage to experience certain things crossing boundaries was not an issue for him.  He was the first man I said yes to.  I knowingly crossed the line before marriage. And it created yet another layer of shame and fear.

Even though I had met my husband at 18 it didn’t mean I was all of a sudden free from abuse and pain.  Between the ages of 18-22 I experienced probably some of the most overt of sexual harassments, looks, and comments.  The unwritten rule in the military, at least what I was taught as a woman by other women, was to not create issues or ripples unless you were truly raped, touched, or groped you were to take it  and deal with it.  Yes they had sexual harassment policies put into place but it truly felt like a he said/she said type of situation.   So even though these were some of my worst years of experiencing sexual harassment they were also my best years because I had my husband.  No I didn’t share with him all I dealt with, mostly because I didn’t fully understand the extent of it.  By this point in my life I was so numbed to this type of treatment I usually brushed it off.  Or so I thought I was brushing it off.

Has your past experiences left you feeling fearful, hopeless, and rigid?

Let’s take a look at the blend of: Peppermint, Lemon, Orange

Peppermint:   When sexual harassment becomes something your body thinks is “normal” or can’t change, it can difficult to give into fear, to feel intense pain, to feel heavy hearted.  Peppermint reminds us we do have the strength to face emotional pain.  However we must not over use it to escape from the pain, we must process the emotions so we can open our hearts to optimism and hope.

Lemon: Joy is foreign to a person who has trauma to process.  It’s easy to get lost in despair and hopelessness when your body has been used and abused.  Lemon not only opens us up to feel joy again but creates a clarity to focus on the Light of our life experiences rather than the dark.

Wild Orange:  It can be easy to become rigid and lack a sense of humor after sexual harassment.  Walls can go up wondering if every joke, every hug, has a double or underlying meaning.  Wild Orange reminds us we can be playful, we can be spontaneous.  Not every hug or joke is tainted.

Diffuse these three oils together or create a roller bottle so you can place them on pulse points.  These are especially powerful oils to tap with.  They will encourage amazing emotional release through your prayer and tapping.

Prayer:

Heavenly Father, open my heart to not view every experience as the potential of something bad….remind that when I am with my husband I can be free, I can enjoy myself, I can experience our intimate relationship without fear….AMEN!

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