I Love Me!

I hear women (friends, family, clients…even strangers)……tell me all the time they don’t love themselves…

They don’t like this about themselves….etc.

BUT…..they will when they reach a certain physical goal….

REALLY?!

Cause let me tell you what 10 years ago I had what I thought was a dream come true: thigh gap!

And I was miserable!

What I didn’t know was I had obtained that thigh gap because of a thyroid and adrenal malfunction…..my body was literally burning itself up!

All I knew at the time was I had finally achieved a coveted goal….and I still didn’t love myself!

And when my body started to heal….I started to put muscle mass back on…..I started to look healthier and feel healthier…..yet I still didn’t love me!

How I started to truly love me…..no matter what I looked like….was connecting to my inner me….my soul…..and really working on my self talk….my mindset….

I started pulling out ALL the tools in my toolbox…..and went to work on my TRUE healing of SELF LOVE!

I can honestly say I LOVE ME!

This doesn’t mean I don’t have physical goals. This doesn’t mean I don’t have health goals.

What this means is I don’t judge me!
I don’t compare me!
I don’t bully me!

I only love me….and the skin that I’m in!

Are you ready to TRULY love you?!

Hugs and prayers always,

Kelly 😘

TRUE CHANGE: Reformation from within!

I have loosely followed the drama of the news for about 10 years now.  I use to let the news consume me.  I would either let it spin in my head or there would be things I just didn’t understand and I hated not understanding so that would spin as well.

I made a deal with God 10 years ago…..I would stop obsessing over the news and I would trust He would ensure I would be informed on news that I really needed to be aware of.  Now you might ask if I am intentionally not reading or watching the news how am I going to know something?  Well, He would have specific friends or family members that know me well share things with me.  Things that I would resonate with.  News I would understand and not obsess over.

The last 6 months though….ugh.  I have still intentionally not watched or read anything BUT the downloads of information that have been thrown my way by God through friends and family has been well… let’s say more than I could possibly want to consume but I know I need to continue to be in the loop in order to truly discern and pray for all that is going on.

This has had me reflecting on censorship.  Part of why I walked away from the news years ago was not just because it wasn’t serving my mental health or my soul,  it was also because I KNEW I wasn’t really getting the whole story.  We may be a country that is supposed to be about not censoring yet it happens…..and it is happening by the ocean full right now.

We have organizations and groups of people pulling down statues and re-writing history books.  They don’t like that the people being honored to have lived a full picture story ie-meaning they were human they did some really good things but they also lived in times when not so great things took place.

Now I know you’re going to say, Kelly, you’re oversimplifying it….and I challenge you to think….no we as a people are overcomplicating it.  I think when we as a people start overthinking things, start trying to get into the weeds of things then that’s when we forget to be childlike in our love and compassion.

Yes, there are historical figures who were this or that…..but they did good things too…..heck lets take a look at some of the key biblical characters (outside of Jesus) they weren’t perfect…..they did good and bad things!  Hello: Abraham…Moses….David….Peter!!!

St. Francis is one I love to look at as a great example of this conundrum….he knew he wasn’t perfect….he knew there were issues in the church…..yet he didn’t stick his head in the sand nor did he try to banish the Church and erase it’s history or even run from it…..  He stuck around to make a difference.

And that is what we should each strive to do.  Whether it is in our everyday life as a citizen or even the life of our health.

I think about how even though I may have had moments in my life where I really didn’t like the skin I was in I never gave up on it or tried to permanently alter it.  I dug in deep to address my mental health, my emotional health, my spiritual health so I could truly address my physical health.

I think we could all take a page from Saint Francis’s life right now….maybe if we were all willing to dig in and address the true internal issues….not complicate things….and not run away or ignore the issues….and keep things simple and pure then maybe just maybe we can heal the hate in this world….and HEAL THE HATE WE DIRECT TO OUR OWN SELF.

Because this is the BIGGEST AHA I hope you will grasp…..when we are able to finally TRULY LOVE OURSELF that is when we will change the world….because you can’t give love, true love… if you don’t already love yourself!

Many hugs, prayers, and blessings as always,

Kelly 🙂

Speak with Passion

What do you need to communicate today!?

Not just to others but to yourself as well!?

I have had an amazingly abundant and full week….lol!  Meaning I had to focus on certain aspects of my life and be willing to put aside other parts.  But that is the beauty of being a wife, a mom, a homeschooler, business woman….and CHILD OF GOD!!!

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Oh my goodness!

The big thing that was in the forefront was my daughters Classical Conversations, Challenge II group….was debate!  She had a team policy debate on Tuesday.  She was feeling super stressed about it in soooo many ways…..and for soooo many reasons!

But in a nut shell….she was feeling some tension, constricted, and possibly fear of rejection.  She needed to feel relaxed so she could express herself openly and honestly with passion!

***Check out this video I shared about it:

She was needing to face her fears….to break down her limitations….to not take things so serious…..AND to not feel burdened by life’s challenges!  So I had her oil up and tap with some specific oils to support her mindset and her gut….lol!  (The video above shares even more!)

But it had me thinking about how much do we internalize and not use our voice….feel afraid to share our passions because of what we think others may think….say….or do about it!

And how much of it is effecting our health!?

Our thoughts feed our feelings which feed our actions which gives us results that feed into our belief system that then turns us back to our thoughts…..this becomes a cycle!

So we if we think we are not enough…we then don’t feel enough….which then means we are going to act like we are not enough….and we are going to create “not enough” results…..which reinforces our belief that we are not enough….which then confirms our thoughts: we are not enough!!

Wow…do you see the terrible cycle!!

So what we feed our minds is sooooo important for our WHOLE HEALTH!!!

I am all too aware of how important this is!  Dysmorphia can easily spiral me into LOTS OF NEGATIVE SELF TALK!  BUT…..I continually feed my mind with AMAZING podcasts, books, prayers, support from others….and using my oils and tapping to ensure my self talk cycle is SUPER HEALTHY AND STRONG….therefore my belief system is a cycle of love….not fear!!

What is your self talk cycle?

How can you shift it to loving yourself and believing in yourself?

Sit with this…pray….journal….tap….and oil up!

Have a blessed weekend….and know you are always in my prayers!

Hugs and blessings,

Kelly 😉

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hugs…prayers….and lots of love always!!!

What is Weakness Really?!

Recently I’ve been dealing with some inflammation that has had me concerned…

This quote from St. Francis reminds me that there IS greatness to discover with all of this with great patience.

So I will sit with Him and be patient as I listen to what He has to share with me….as I listen what my body is trying to tell me!

What challenge are you needing to be patient about?!

Sit with this….pray about it….journal…tap and oil up!!!

Blessings,

Kelly

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I DO: Know I’m beautiful!

24 years ago I said “I Do”……

Marriage isn’t always the easiest thing…..we all know this….

But because of sooo many tools God gifts us with…I am able to try and practice being the best version of myself with and for my husband!

One of the many gifts has been doTERRAs precious oils….

These oils support me in so many ways….physically….mentally….emotionally!!!

And we all know relationships can be very emotional 😭🤗😇😘!!!!

Today I’m going to use Beautiful oil even more than usual….because it will stir with in me and remind me how beautiful my husband finds me!!!

He tells me all the time….🥰…..

I know this to be a truth….just like each of you are sooo amazingly beautiful….but because of the mental disconnect with dysmorphia…..I don’t always believe it!

Beautiful oil doesn’t let me forget it…it transforms the lies into truth!!!!

What lies do you allow the enemy to whisper in your ear?!

How can you combat his lies with the truth?!

Sit with this…..pray about it…journal….tap….and oil up!!!

My hugs and prayers always!

Kelly 🙏💧💜

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2019: His will or mine?

I’ve been taking some much needed self care time!

Time to reflect….ponder…and dream!!!

I’ve been filling up journal pages faster than I can write…..so when I’m not writing on paper I’m writing in my head!

Some of what I’ve been writing and reflecting on is 2019….

How do I hope to be the best version of myself?

How do I plan on reaching some pretty big goals?!

And how do I plan on making sure I’m constantly surrendering to His will and not mine?

I don’t have all the answers or thoughts written out yet….but that’s what I’ve been up to the last two weeks and well I plan on continuing through this month to get laser focused on the essentials of a truly WHOLE-life-giving 2019!

Have you set your 2019 goals?

Have you taken the time to unplug from all distractions so you can be alone with the Lord and hear His thoughts for you?!

How can you live an authentic, transforming 2019?!

Sit…pray….tap….and oil up!!

My hugs and prayers always,

Kelly 🙏💧💜

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Balance: Retreat & Restore

“The soul loves moderation in all things. Whenever the human body lacks measure, and eat and drinks or something like that unbalances it, the powers of the soul are wounded… So in all things let people maintain a proper balance”

– Hildegard of Bingen

I fell in love with St. Hildegard years ago. I knew she, along with a few other amazing females Saints would be the patron saints of my business and ministry.

I am reflecting tonight on all I am going to grow and learn about as I prepare for an adventure that will take me out of pocket for almost 3 weeks. I can’t wait to share more here.

What I’m especially excited about this adventure is how it is going to allow me to reflect, meditate, pray, and in sort of way retreat to focus on some of my personal and professional goals.

I’m going to take the opportunity to detox my mind, body, and soul. To detox from the clutter and chatter and unnecessary. To get back to simplicity of reflecting on what is truly my why and next steps of being that intentional disciple of life for me, my family, friends, everyone….

What is my why?

How can I make a difference?

One connection at a time.

One life at a time.

One drop at a time!

So I will be silent here for almost 3 weeks and will be back to share all I reflect on by November 3rd!

What is your why?

Do you need to unplug to rebalance your mind, body, soul health?

Blessings,

Kelly 😘

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Amazing Aha’s…

I was up late last night because my mind was whirling with all the amazing beauty I’m surrounded by.

It was also whirling in the amazing freedom I feel in my health journey.

Last week was full of women empowerment: a workshop for women who were once trapped in sex trafficking and a Facebook live about thriving with dysmorphia.

Anyone in a healing journey knows we never fully arrive….but it’s the journey that gives us amazing growth in thriving.

An amazing thing with thriving and growth is things in the past that could potentially be triggers can take place and all of a sudden you will realize you’re absolutely fine!

That happens for me this last weekend. As I was getting ready to come and attend dōTERRAs convention I was concerned there could be some triggers with the Dysmorphia.

After all I was going to meet people for the first time I have respected and admired.

I was going to catch up with old friends I haven’t seen in over a year.

And I realized I wasn’t doing all the yucky mind stuff. Instead I was excited. And I felt light in my step. And I felt free of my own self judgment and comparing.

And today I had the opportunity to feel the fullness of that freedom when my daughter and I were walking around taking in down town Salt Lake City before all the chaos was about to break loose!

As my daughter and we’re deciding on the direction we were to go in we ran right into my darling friend, mentor, soul sister and into one of the amazing women I have been blessed to learn from and to know from afar for almost 2 years now.

And what did I feel? Love, excitement, joy, peace….and no self judgment or comparison…only freedom!

I saw these two amazing warrior women who I admire and saw all their gifts and talents for theirs and saw all mine for mine.

I saw how we were each so different yet facets that overlap just enough for each of us to draw strength from each other, encourage each other, yet stay true to our inner selves….to be uniquely authentic to ourselves and our own personal missions and goals.

I’m so grateful I had that amazing moment on the street corner because it was confirmation for me that I have come so far and it’s okay to be super vulnerable with others because that vulnerability gives us strength in our healing journey.

It allows us to see each other as God sees each of us: beautifully wonderfully made!

Cause these two women are!! They are beautifully wonderfully made….and so am I! And I am truly enough!

I have entered into a new level, new layer, a new path of this healing journey. And it’s super exciting!

Where are you at on your healing journey?!

What “aha’s” have you had recently that deserves celebrating?

Take a moment to sit with it….journal about it…smile about it and as always oil up and tap about it!

Find the freedom of knowing: you are enough!

My hugs, love, and prayers always!

Kelly

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Dysmophia: The Circus Mirror

Today I had an amazing opportunity to share, coach, and start supporting some amazing survivors of sex trafficking with my “You are more than your body!” workshop series.

Yes, you read that correct! These women were used and abused in ways that many of us can’t possibly imagine.

One of the many challenges they face and are needing to heal from is how they see themselves. How they see their body.

These women…more than anyone is at risk of dysmorphia…their bodies were treated as objects of use and abuse that they are at greater of this mental disorder.

But they are not the only ones at risk!

anyone is…

Did you know 1 in 50 women AND men have Dysmorphia?!

Tomorrow join me in Facebook at noon central to learn more about how Dysmorphia effects a person and what it looks like. Plus my personal journey with it!

Hope to see you tomorrow on Facebook!

Have an amazing evening and many blessings dear one!

Hugs and prayers always,

Kelly

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