UNPLANNED: Hope, Healing, Health

Words cannot describe the pain…the sorrow….the utmost intense emotions I felt last night…

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Yet the excitement….the joy…..the peace and healing….

Actually there is another time I felt the same exhaustion from a movie…..the Passion by Mel Gibson.

Last night my family and I attended a “red carpet” event of Unplanned.  Our parish church organized a viewing of the movie before it was to be released today.

Actually it was a woman from our church, who organized this event, who is truly passionate about serving others and bringing about light to the world.

This was not an easy movie to watch, for many reasons.

One…I know Abby Johnson!  I’m not close intimate friends with her….but one of my dear friends is!  She attends our parish, she is on the parish counsel with my husband, and I have had the blessing to visit with her on a few occasions at different gathers.

She IS a warrior woman!

She is a beautiful example of what I share here all the time….and at workshops……and presentations……which is:

TELL YOUR STORY!

Get it out of you….don’t allow it to hold you in shame…..in bondage!

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None of us have a pretty bow wrapped story.  They are all varying shades of messy.  But when we hide them deep within us we are allowing the enemy to separate us from our most amazing, loving FATHER!

Abby Johnson was brave and bold to share her story to THE WORLD!  And that alone will continue to be her true healing path.

Being open and honest about your story is a powerful instrument….tool…..of healing.

It is a way to forgiveness……GOD ALREADY FORGIVES US AND LOVES US…..but sometimes we stay in bondage of pain and shame and hurt…..because we haven’t forgiven others…..or most likely we haven’t FORGIVEN OURSELVES.

That un-forgiveness can lead us to so much pain but most of all it can and will effect our health…..first our emotional health…..then our mental…..and finally our physical!

Because the body is an amazing creation!  Our body knows it’s connected to our mind, our heart, our spirit, our emotions.  It doesn’t try to separate all that we are made up of, as so many doctors or even us, try to do too often.

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For me this movie was moving beyond words…..and also very healing.  Knowing that the anniversary of the loss of my sweet precious Sam is this weekend, and the D&C that took place on the 1st…..well let’s just say lent is already a difficult time for me most years…..yet also healing and renewing…..but this movie definitely had me doing some ugly crying!

It had me reflect on my own path of life…..my own wounds……my own pain and choices.

I have always been a huge pro-lifer……but I use to not always be as loving and compassionate in how I approached the subject.

And after one of my rapes….even being a pro-lifer…..there was a brief moment of panic when I thought…..”what if I get pregnant?”…..

And finally my saddest thought that took me quite a bit to heal from was when I did loose my precious baby several years back……the shame I had of relief!

My husband and I had struggled for so many years to conceive our daughter and had fought super hard to try to have another. We had finally given into the peace of:  it was not meant to be.

Yet when our daughter was nearly 8 we discover we are pregnant, I was less than thrilled.  All of a sudden I was having to figure out how I was going to adjust to all the changes it was going to bring.  We had BIG plans that year….we had a routine.  WE WERE COMFORTABLE.

I should’ve been thrilled but I wasn’t.  I had just gotten my health back on track and here this precious baby growing inside of me was going to create havoc with all that.   I was selfish in my thoughts.  That’s not too harsh….it’s the truth.

My dearest of friends consoled me and comforted me.  She was with me through the whole journey.  She would ask me the nitty gritty questions….the hard questions.  And would remind me deep down what I really felt.  Which was that I REALLY DID WANT THIS BABY BUT I WAS AFRAID TO WANT IT!  Because what if…..!?

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And then WHAT IF DID HAPPEN……and I felt the immense amount of guilt and shame.  I blamed myself for waaay too long.  But luckily by that point in my journey I had my safe people that I could be vulnerable and honest with….like this friend…..and know I wouldn’t be judged for having human thoughts and feelings.

Many people will go to this movie because they support the cause…the message….the truth.

Many will NOT go to it because they don’t want to hear it.

Some will even waiver because it was given the rating of R…..which is hogwash….our daughters under 18 can go to have a legal abortion but not old enough to go to this movie!?

But I think EVERYONE SHOULD GO FOR THE REDEMPTION MESSAGE they will receive from it.

This movie is about so much more than exposing PLANNED PARENTHOOD……its truly about LOVE, FORGIVENESS, JOY, PEACE…..HEALING!

Have you had an ugly kind of cry recently?  I honestly think everyone should about 2-3 times a year….it’s cleansing for the soul….cleansing for the emotions…..and yes cleansing for the body!

Go to this movie….have an ugly cry…..sit with it…..pray about it…..tap and oil up……and see how it moves your emotions, mind, heart, soul, energy in a different direction!

Many blessings and hugs always dear ones,

Kelly 🙂

PS….

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To learn more….Unplanned premiers TODAY, March 29 at a theater near you.

To see the trailer and find the nearest theater visit https://www.unplannedfilm.com

For resources on post-abortive counseling and support visit http://hopeafterabortion.com

For other resources and ways to find assistance with a crisis pregnancy in your area visit

http://www.priestsforlife.org/crisis.html

If you would like to know about 40 Days for Life visit https://40daysforlife.com

For more information about Abby’s ministry, And Then There Were None, which helps abortion worker get out of the industry visit https://abortionworker.com

 

Forgiveness: Declaration of Love

Forgiveness is about letting go of the past to live fully in the present!!!

When we say “I Forgive“……we are actually saying “I LOVE“!

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This whole month of January has been EXACTLY this for me!  I’ve had stuff bubble up to the surface of my healing journey that is ready to be unearthed.  I have also been realizing I TRULY AM OK WITH ME!!!

One of the things that bubbled up recently was trying to link 3 different men who have been in my life all having a particular role in my life past and present that shows a direct correlation to my relationship with God.

My dear Wellness Practitioner did some deep diving this last week with me. Why? Because I have had some physical health situations that I KNEW were rooted in emotions….and needed to be released!

My homework was to sit with the emotions we unearthed and see where my tapping, my prayer discerning, and the Holy Spirit leads me with my healing.

I was able to realize I DON’T HAVE A HEAVENLY FATHER WOUND!!!  I truly don’t!  I have nothing but LOVE for HIM!!!  The reason I have never been angry with HIM (even when I was given permission to feel it!)  over any of my past traumas or my health challenges is because the anger isn’t meant to be directed to HIM EVER!!!

Anger….even justified anger…..should always be directed to the rightful owner….the enemy!  The enemy creates chaos….confusion….hurt….pain….disease.….shame…..and so much more!!!!  Therefore he and his minions are the only entities that our anger should ever be directed toward.

When we don’t throw our anger to the foot of the cross for it to be plunged into the pits of hell…..well we are abusing ourselves…..we are sacrificing our relationship with our LORD!!  And we don’t want to do that!

And since our minds are so powerful we must be careful with how we think….about anger….about others….about ourselves!!!

When we don’t manage our thoughts we are abusing ourselves….we are creating shame…we are holding ourselves back from seeing the fullness of our beauty.

Therefore when we devote our energy on forgiveness….we are spending our energy on LOVE!!!

Are you open and ready to forgive….so you can freely LOVE!?

Sit with this….pray about it….journal…..tap….and oil up!!

blessing and prayers always,

Kelly 🙂

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Fear Your Dreams

Pursuing dreams and goals, they can be scary.

I have moments when I find myself falling into the temptation of fear.  It tries to mask itself with all sorts of tricks but ultimately it is fear.

Fear:

  • I won’t reach my goal.
  • I am going to neglect my family.
  • I’m not going to meet my daughters needs.
  • I’m being selfish.
  • I’m going to mess it all up.

But then I STOP…I reach for several oils.  I first use Forgive while I tap and pray.  I have God remind me He placed these dreams and goals in my heart and head because its HIS mission that He has placed there.

By me reaching these goals, I will be breaking the doubt and bondage of generational junk.

  • God is teaching me this is my path for Him and this path WON’T create division between me and my daughter or husband. 
  • He is showing me I don’t have to fear dreams and goals! 
  • I don’t have to fear my family will be hurt or angry with me.
  • I don’t have to fear I’m not equipped because HE HAS equipped me.

I am blessed to have the two greatest cheerleaders: my daughter and husband.  They don’t doubt what God is calling me to do…..and they DON’T ever feel like I put anything before them!

As a family we pitch in to take care of the house, each other, and we each pursue our individual dreams and goals together!

After I have oiled up, tapped, and prayed through all that I feel: Peace…Serenity.  I am able to relate to the serenity prayer in a deeper more meaningful way.

What do you need to relinquish…to find your Peace and Serenity?!

Sit with this….oil up….tap….pray….connect :)….

Many blessings dear beloved ones….

Kelly 😉

http://www.my.doterra.com/kellyfrick

 

Flashbacks {Memories}

Yesterday movers came in to load up our house.

Today we go through it one more time to clean to get on the road.

It had me thinking how as we transition we are also being transformed into the next stage of our life!  Each adventure we have is like an onion….a layer of living our life.

Which has me reflecting fondly in how much I have grown through this blog.  How much it has helped me heal from so many layers of pain, trauma, and wounds.  I have no idea how many lives I have touched or have helped with their journey of living an amazingly thriving life but I do know by being a voice for all of you it HAS TRANSFORMED ME!

Have you set out to do something for others and it has done something for you?  What layer of your onion has been the most healing!?

Sit with this….pray about it….journal about it…..share/connect with me about it!

Many hugs and prayers dear followers…family…friends…

~Kelly 🙂

http://www.mydoterra.com/kellyfrick

 

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