Transformation Tuesday

I started out this year with purposing myself to hop on to Facebook EVERY TUESDAY to provide support and service with a facebook live.  I do this on my public page Kelly Frick: Connect as well as in two other groups:  my private clients and my team of leaders.

What started out as me wanting to be super intentional and consistent in showing up for something…..has turned into an amazing transformation in my own health….we are talking my mental health…..and how it effects my physical health.

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You see because of the traumas I experienced in my past….my fight, flight, freeze was always on hyper-alert.  And dysmorphia definitely distorts that and makes it even more intense.

So my excuse factor for why I couldn’t do something, show up somewhere, and keep a schedule was always…well full of excuses.

Over the years with ministry and business I have worked more and more on this.  But 3 years ago I made a commitment to myself that I had to truly think before I committed to something so I wouldn’t back out at the last minute.  So that once I set a date, put something on the schedule or told someone I would be there…..I HAD TO DO IT!!!

It was hard at first…..because it is not that I didn’t want to be true to my word….but you have to understand…..trauma….particularly sexual abuses…..creates this distortion in the brain that EVERYTHING is a potential danger.

I wanted to once and for all be braver and start rewiring my brain to believe and KNOW it was okay to have an amazing ministry and business, to support women, to be the best version of myself.

And that is what I have done.

I have consistently been showing up EVERY TUESDAY for a Facebook Live…..and every week I schedule wellness calls with clients…..every month I provide a wellness workshop…..AND I DO NOT CANCEL ON MYSELF OR ON THEM!!!

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What have you cancelled on that was due to your fight, flight, or freeze being in hyper alert?!

Sit with this….pray about it…..journal….tap….and oil up!

Many blessings always,

Kelly 🙂

PS….

Here is today’s Transformation Tuesday about preventative care…..

PPS…..

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Plans {God’s or yours}

This week has been nothing I had planned or anticipated.  I had so many ideas and thoughts for what I wanted to do….and even what I wanted to write and share here.

Yet none of it went as I planned.

AND THAT IS OKAY.

Because I am NOT in charge….GOD IS!

And the beautiful thing is:  THANK GOD, HE IS IN CHARGE!

When you feel like things aren’t going the way you wanted them to, what do you do?  Do you throw up your hands and say:  I GIVE!  Or do you dig in your heals and say: I’M GOING TO DO THIS NO MATTER WHAT!

Hopefully it’s a little bit of both.  This is why: when we connect to understanding, it is HIS WILL, we should be living in, we can see more quickly the moments we need to say, “Ok Lord I give, I give my will to your will”…..and we can also see when He needs us to dig in, have some grit and not give up!

And that is what the top 10 oils can support you with!  I know that may sound silly since I just spent 2 weeks talking about the top 10 oils relating to self-care and self-love.  But I can’t help but see how they are helpful in almost everything anymore.

  1. Lavender – When we need to relax about things not going our way.
  2. Lemon – When we need to quit toxic thinking and give it to God.
  3. Peppermint- When we need to have that energy to just DO IT!
  4. Melalueca- When we need to quit allowing others to fill us with toxic thoughts.
  5. Frankincence- When we need that extra push to release our will and TRUST His Will Be Done!
  6. Oregano – Not today Satan!
  7. DigestZen- When we feel that fight or flight moment that builds up and we just don’t know what to do!
  8. Breathe- When we need to realize the breath of God is more powerful than our own.
  9. Deep Blue – When the struggle of wrestling leaves you feeling black and blue.
  10. On-Guard – When you just need to protect yourself from all outside invaders to focus on only God’s voice.

As you prepare for the weekend….stop and think…..if my day doesn’t go according to MY PLANS….do I need to reflect and think on WHAT IS HIS PLAN for me!?

Sit with this…..pray about this…..journal about it……connect with me and share below about it!

Many hugs and blessings my dear followers…family…friends…..

~Kelly 🙂

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