I DO: Know I’m beautiful!

24 years ago I said “I Do”……

Marriage isn’t always the easiest thing…..we all know this….

But because of sooo many tools God gifts us with…I am able to try and practice being the best version of myself with and for my husband!

One of the many gifts has been doTERRAs precious oils….

These oils support me in so many ways….physically….mentally….emotionally!!!

And we all know relationships can be very emotional 😭🤗😇😘!!!!

Today I’m going to use Beautiful oil even more than usual….because it will stir with in me and remind me how beautiful my husband finds me!!!

He tells me all the time….🥰…..

I know this to be a truth….just like each of you are sooo amazingly beautiful….but because of the mental disconnect with dysmorphia…..I don’t always believe it!

Beautiful oil doesn’t let me forget it…it transforms the lies into truth!!!!

What lies do you allow the enemy to whisper in your ear?!

How can you combat his lies with the truth?!

Sit with this…..pray about it…journal….tap….and oil up!!!

My hugs and prayers always!

Kelly 🙏💧💜

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BLACK FRIDAY: Warrior Women Empowering Tools

Having a teen daughter can sometimes be a challenge…lol!  I actually don’t find her teen-ness to be a challenge…..because I honestly love it…..

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BUT…..I do know that if we as mother’s aren’t even equipped ourselves it can be difficult to equip our daughters or other women in our life.

I think about how because of dysmorphia as a teen I truly didn’t have PEACE in my body.  I am naturally a CHEERful person but I allowed my mental disconnect to rob me of my PEACE and CHEER my whole teen years and young adult years.

There were so many factors that contributed to my disconnect about my body….about my self love…..one of the factors was my mom.  No fault of her own…..because she wasn’t equipped herself then she wasn’t able to properly equip me.

When I became pregnant with my daughter (before I even know she was a she) I purposed my entire being to nurture self love and positive self talk within me as she was developing and growing in my womb.

Because of this purposing….a seed was planted…..and a root took place.

Over the years watching and modeling PEACE AND CHEER within my own skin for my daughter has been key for her developing her own self-worth….her own confidence in her own skin…..her owning who she is and being proud of it!

It wasn’t easy but I knew it was important.

Regardless if a girl, young lady, woman develops or has dysmorphia I think with the media being so saturated with images of “perfection” our girls are at risk of not loving the beautiful bodies they were gifted.

How can you create a shift in your mindset of yourself….and for the women in your life?

Sit and pray about this……start a journal with your action plans…..tap about it to uncover any emotions that have been hidden….and then choose an oil to support the healing to fully embrace YOU ARE ENOUGH!!!

Have an amazing blessed day….

hugs, prayers, blessings,

Kelly 😉

PS…

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Dysmophia: The Circus Mirror

Today I had an amazing opportunity to share, coach, and start supporting some amazing survivors of sex trafficking with my “You are more than your body!” workshop series.

Yes, you read that correct! These women were used and abused in ways that many of us can’t possibly imagine.

One of the many challenges they face and are needing to heal from is how they see themselves. How they see their body.

These women…more than anyone is at risk of dysmorphia…their bodies were treated as objects of use and abuse that they are at greater of this mental disorder.

But they are not the only ones at risk!

anyone is…

Did you know 1 in 50 women AND men have Dysmorphia?!

Tomorrow join me in Facebook at noon central to learn more about how Dysmorphia effects a person and what it looks like. Plus my personal journey with it!

Hope to see you tomorrow on Facebook!

Have an amazing evening and many blessings dear one!

Hugs and prayers always,

Kelly

Self Care = Strength

What am I doing this month on Facebook?!

Today’s video….you can watch by clicking on the link above!

I’m going to get raw and super real and vulnerable this month on Facebook! So if you don’t already follow me….please click this link: Facebook: Kelly Frick: Connect to follow me!

This will ensure you don’t miss any postings or videos when I go live this month.

I’m going to talk about topics that not everyone likes to admit about them selfs….things that are important to bring out so the true healing can take place:

  • Orthorexia
  • Disordered eating
  • Dysmorphia
  • Chronic exercise
  • Self hate

And how through these challenges we can grow stronger to realize:

WE ARE ENOUGH!

And that we are NOT our body!

I’m super excited to share deeper with each of you my hope and healing journey into true, full, whole health: mind body soul spirit!

And as always if you find value in what I share with you please spread the word and share my blog, youtube, Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, Pinterest or even twitter with others!

I have a passion to bless and serve as many people as I can in my lifetime…and I know I can do this one drop at a time…and one person at a time….and you can help me with that mission!

Have a wonderful warrior Wednesday. And as always remember you are wonderfully beautifully made!

Blessings, hugs, and prayers always!

Kelly 🤗

September: Love equals Self-Care

I’ve been reflecting this weekend on what September has in store for me! There are sooo many amazing things I’m planning and have scheduled.

For starters, next week I will be providing a 4 part workshop series for women who have been rescued from sex trafficking. I have modified my “I am Enough” presentations to address their specific needs.

I am beyond thrilled to have been asked to come in and present and love on these ladies with empowerment tools like journaling, eft, and oils.

But we are also going to be digging into the deep stuff of healthy relationships with our body and food and even our mind. We will address topics like eating disorders, dysmorphia, orthorexia, and more. We will talk about how when our sexuality has been used and abuse how that effects us emotionally and why we are more susceptible to these mental disorders.

This has been interesting for me because it means I have to put myself back into the thick of when I felt my weakest and how I felt. It has me having to really dig into the dark parts of my mental disconnects and realize even some areas that well…..weren’t as healed as I thought.

But that’s also the amazing thing about this… it has me continually working on my healing so I can be that light and guide of hope and healing.

As I have been preparing…I realized even though I’ve done various workshops and presentations in the past on these topics I’ve never done an on-line event with it. And I need to….not just for me but for those who want to do private healing through some of this.

Sometimes we aren’t ready to be that open and vulnerable in a group of others….it needs to happen eventually…but it’s ok to give yourself grace to heal in your way….in your time….and with God loving you the entire time.

I will announce the date of the on-line mini-retreat soon.

But to give you a sneak peak of what to expect it’s a 4 part series/event:

1. The story of our body: how and why we are made.

  • Our stories
  • Healing, hope, health

2. The gift of self care through:

  • Baths, walks, massage
  • Podcasts, books, journaling
  • High vibration food and sleep

3. The Mirror: Saying I Love You!

  • Mental disconnects like eating disorders, dysmorphia, addictions
  • Emotions, hormones, what does this all mean? What are the roots?

4. Emotions: acknowledge, embrace, release, rewrite…

  • Understanding how all of the above are important.
  • How eft and essential oils support this healing journey.

I can’t wait to release the date and further details!!!

On a totally separate note…

This month in the amazing dōTERRA world of these powerful gifts from the earth…there is a deal that I have NEVER seen during my 2 years of partnering with them!

They have several of their start up kits that are 20% off….which really if you look at the retail price they are over 40% off….saving hundreds of dollars!!!

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So if you have been on the fence about if natural remedies are for your physical health, your homes health, and your emotional health…trying to figure out if it is right for you…now may just very well be the time!

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Are you open and ready to start this amazing hope and healing journey with your health?

Are you open and ready to start you’re transformation?

Are you open and ready to start your self care this September?!

Reach out…message me….contact me on Facebook through messenger…..or email kellyfrickconnect@gmail.com comment and share below…..let’s connect!

I’m here waiting….I’m holding space for you….I’m praying for you…..because I know your are worth it…..I know you’re enough!

The question is do you know it?!

Hugs and prayers always!

Kelly

my.doterra.com/kellyfrick

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Disordered: Mind, Body, Spirit

This was probably the hardest chapter to write so far!  Mostly because it is the area in my life that needs the most amount of healing still.  This is because it’s not just about me healing emotionally but because this involves a mental imbalance and it involves generational DNA.

I find it fitting and interesting that just this last week I had a trigger with dysmorphia.  I found myself obsessing, comparing, judging, and so much more.  Which reminded me: its a journey.  I MUST not give up.  I must not get lax.  I must not give into negative vibration.  AND I MUST continue to do the inner work to be the best version of myself to be that intentional disciple for others.

What was my trigger?  Social media selfies of friends.

I want others who don’t understand dysmorphia to maybe take a moment and see through our lenses for a moment and think before you post something.  And this is not just for us but for yourself as well.   Because every time we place ourselves out there to be looked at just for our physical flesh “accomplishments” we are making ourselves vulnerable to be coveted and lusted after.  Plus we are not building up the body of Christ by creating these temptations when we want to just vainly post our aesthetic accomplishments….

But please hear this…..this is not judgement…because I know some amazing people who post these selfies who truly don’t think they are doing harm….they think they are doing good….but let me help you see it from our lenses...

Dysmorphia sees:  I will never be that pretty….I am too fat….I will never be that thin….I am too short….I can’t go out with them because everyone will wonder why do they hang out with “her”…..I am ugly….there is something wrong with me…..I am not lovable….what did he/she mean by that comment?….

The mental chatter can be endless….

Those with dysmorphia do have a responsibility to minimize their triggers….but dear ones you do to!  We all have a responsibility as children of God to not lead anyone into sin….to not lead anyone deeper into their struggles.

So my challenge to you is to truly reflect before you post that selfie: is it going to draw your brothers and sisters in Christ closer to Him? or farther?  Is it going to draw YOU closer to Christ?  Is it helping or hindering your Christ walk?  Is it causing you to focus too much on your flesh and not enough on the spirit of your being?

May you all find this next chapter healing and full of hope….and may what I shared above cause us all to reflect in how we can truly be a better version of ourselves always….especially when it comes to being an intentional disciple!

My love, hugs, and prayers always!

Kelly 🙂

chapter 11

CHAPTER 11: DISORDER

After speaking up it felt like I was finally free from being a magnet of sexual harassment and sexual grabs…..but very aware, actually hyper aware,  by this time in my life, the micro-looks of a pure look and a lustful look from ANY man.

I learned how to truly stay away from men, situations, and events that could make me feel vulnerable.  But by this time I was so self-conscience of my body that I still felt the need to “be perfect”  I just knew if I looked a particular way then maybe just maybe I wouldn’t attract the wrong men, I would love myself better, and I would finally find peace and freedom.

What I didn’t know was the years of being objectified had created a mental disconnect with my mind and body called dysmorphia. This actually took place at a young age.  There are many different factors that cause a young girl to develop dysmorphia at a young age.  This IS a mental condition that usually becomes obvious by the teen years.  A side note:  There is a huge difference between a girl just not liking what she sees in the mirror and moves on, versus dysmorphia.  With dysmorphia a girl looks in the mirror and doesn’t like what she sees and will go to extremes to change it.  Even avoid contact with others because she feels she is hideous looking.

I also experienced disordered eating.  Depending on how I felt I would eat to punish or not eat to punish myself.  If I did eat something that I deemed “wrong” or “too much” well then I would work out too much.  You see I wasn’t real keen on the throwing up part.  Don’t get me wrong if I felt I had eaten too too much….I would occasionally force myself to throw up but I knew too much about our health to know that the acid destroys the esophagus and destroys gut health, and so much more.  So my purge of choice was beating myself up at the gym for hours at a time.

Some women because of pain and trauma of sexual abuse hide behind weight I chose to hide behind punishment.  If I could master the chiseled body…the perfect diet…..I would then no longer be a victim of sexual distortions!  And that was the distortion in my own mind, heart and soul!

Do you find yourself obsessing over food? Exercise? Your Body?  Does this obsession take on a life of it’s own in your mind?  Do you sometimes wonder if it’s bigger than you?

Let’s take a look at the blend of: Serenity, Patchouli, Douglas Fir

Serenity:   Disorders….especially dysmorphia has a person’s mind not being quiet, being overactive in the negative chatter.  Serenity brings about tranquility.  It reconnects you with your inner self to find peace within.  It opens you up to acknowledge the imbalance and find space to reflect on your personal healing.

Patchouli:  Plain and simple dysmorphia is about body judgement.  There is such a deep need to find peace to be truly present in your body.  This oil is so amazing in releasing deep issues of judgement and feeling dirty from sexual abuse.  It is the oil of Physicality so it connects your body and spirit to become deeply united.  It opens you up to appreciate the magnificence of your body!

Douglas Fir:  There are many things in a girl’s life that can cause dysmorphia.  One of them is generational.  Having a mom or family member who has dysmorphia increases the likelihood of inheriting it.  Douglas fir is about generational wisdom.  When we have knowledge we can learn from the past.  We can break free from the destructive traditions and behaviors of our families past.  We can bring new life and new growth and healing into our own life as well as to those in our future.

Diffuse these three oils together or create a roller bottle so you can place them on pulse points.  These are especially powerful oils to tap with.  They will encourage amazing emotional release through your prayer and tapping.

Prayer:

Oh Heavenly Father….I know that I know that I know I AM MORE THAN THIS BODY….this BODY has served me so well….it loves me by holding me, carrying me through the day….breathing for me…beating for me…yet I am mean to it….I look at it and judge it….I compare it…..I hide it in shame…please break me free from the bondage of the past generations who did the same….break me of the pain of my abuse and how I view my body….help me to remember I AM NOT MY BODY…but most of all grant me peace to be truly present in this body and to love it fully as you love it…..AMEN.

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SWIMMING in SHAME & ANGER

Isn’t it interesting how when you are working on things…either you have greater revelations or the enemy tries to come down on you!  Anymore when I find myself procrastinating about something I know it’s the enemy not wanting truth out there.  And when I am wrestling with something it is because I feel God’s prompting but I am trying to do it my way…..lol….

This last week was full of amazing graces and gifts….I had some amazing aha moments about business, family, faith, healing….so much.

I was visiting with a dear friend just yesterday and today about how sometimes when a person doesn’t deal with their emotions on something it is because they don’t want to address the emotions because it means they will have to feel those emotions.  And when you think you have already gone through something you don’t want to go through it again.

I have found that in order for me to be truly transparent and authentic with my sharing about this healing and hope through my sexual past of abuses and choices I had to be willing to truly put myself back into that place.  To relive it.  And that’s not fun.

It’s especially not fun for my poor husband, because that means I will be struggling with wanting to be warm and receptive to him.  But…..because of God’s amazing love, Jesus’s amazing mercy, and the Holy Spirits guiding hand I am able to see and understand I don’t have to separate and distance myself.  I can feel all I need to in order to share the fullness with you and still feel all the amazing love I have for myself and my husband….and truly celebrate how far I have come on this journey!

So with that being said….here is the next chapter of this amazing journey of healing and hope :)….

My you be blessed beyond measure….and find amazing hope and healing in your own journey….

chapter 2 blend

Chapter 2:

SWIMMING WITH SHAME & ANGER:

Do you have moments in your life that are so clear to your mind’s eye?  Moments where the background stuff is fuzzy, blurry, but other details within the same moment are crystal clear, and even seem in slow motion.  That is this memory.

This memory has ALWAYS had those distortions.  And with those distortions the enemy used it to start twisting my feelings of self-worth.

I remember it was summer, I was eight years old, and there were about 6 of us girls.  I can see the house.  It was a friend who lived in town but on the outskirts of town because they had open fields around them.  Her aunt who was her same age lived right next door.  I remember thinking how super cool to have family right next door to you, to go to anytime. I also thought it was kind of neat that her aunt was her same age.  I remember the layout of the house as us girls walked through the house: the living room, through the kitchen, to the den to get to the back yard where the above ground swimming pool was at.

I don’t remember why we were all together that hot summer afternoon.  Was it after bible camp?  Were we all just together just because?  Who knows!?  I do remember this young girls older, teen brother, was home.  As all of us came running into the house giggling and excited that we were going to change to play in the pool, he was there.  I don’t remember why and how he was able to convince us girls we needed help with our bathing suits, but he did and this is where the memories become razor sharp in some areas, slow motion in others, and blurry in the distance.

I remember being in the den my back to this tall young man, the sister off to the front of me as she is grabbing her towel and stuff and giggling with her aunt who is dropping things and grabbing things.  The other 3 girls were already out in the backyard.  I look out to the side and I see laughter and brightness, but it feels so dark and cold in this room.  I remember his hands taking forever to tie the strap at my neck and how his hands just lingered on my neck and back.  I don’t remember if I also had a clasp but I do remember his hands going down my back almost to my waist.

I honestly do not know what or why within me knew it was wrong, that his touch wasn’t a touch of innocence or of helpfulness, but of lust, yet I knew it wasn’t an innocent touch.  Years later during a Splankna session with my dear friend Jennifer I was able to discover that this was probably when one of my first unholy vows that was made.

You might ask: how can an eight year old possible make an unholy vow? The unconscienced mind does many things to protect us.  What I do know is in that moment my innocence was stolen, it was forever altered.  My subconscious stored the fact that there are ways we are looked at and touched that are not holy; that can make us feel uncomfortable.  Ways that are full of lust and not love.  And that we have a choice of speaking up and speaking truth against the distortion, the wrong or we have a choice to remain silent, to shush the prickling gut sensation that is shouting THIS IS WRONG.

But I was eight!!!  And understanding fight, flight, and freeze wasn’t even remotely in my vocabulary of understanding yet.

So what unholy vow did I make?  What did I learn in my Splankna session many years later?

I learned I vowed that no one I loved would EVER feel this way, used and looked at as an object.  And when he slowly turned me around to adjust my straps and to make sure everything was snuggly in place I looked up at him and I saw pure anger and rage.  And that is when I took on his emotions of anger and rage, as well as the transfer emotions of my moms of shame and pain.

Remember we are all connected.  And within that moment all that my spirit and body already knew about my mom, but my brain did not, was absorbed thus my vow was sealed, and I didn’t even know it.

I remember clearly during that Splankna session the realization of having taken on my mom’s pain and shame; and the anger and disgust my spirit saw in that boy.  I was able to realize, as an adult, his anger and disgust was directed at me and himself.  His inner core was angry at robbing this young girl of her innocence and creating confusion for the satisfaction of his lust to just have a touch.

I also remember during that session how amazingly freeing it was to have the root revealed.  Free to release the emotions I had experienced and didn’t understand for so many years. The freedom to understand that I had taken on the emotions of others with my spirit and body.  I had believed the enemies lie that it was my burden to bare and if I NEVER wanted someone I loved to feel the same confusion, shame, pain, and anger I would keep my mouth shut.

This was the beginning of what would become 20 years of more exposures like this but so much worse.  I had no idea what my body and spirit was going to be going through over the course of 20 years, all I did know was: I wasn’t the same.  Yet, at 8 years old I knew something wasn’t right.

This was, also, probably the beginning of when I developed dysmorphia.  Dysmorphia is a brain disconnect of how we view and see ourselves in the mirror.  Dysmorphia is not just a girl wanting and wishing she looks different.  But a true disconnect in the brain from what is viewed in the mirror.  There are many triggers.  The 3 main ones are: 1. a trauma, usually sexual, that takes place at a young age, 2. A mother or female influence in your life that has a dislike/distorted view of their body, and 3. A chemical imbalance of specific hormones that don’t feed the brain the right messages.  I have all three of these triggers.  Which of the 3 came first I do not know, but I do know it is a continual blessing for me to look myself each day in the mirror and renounce the lie the enemy tries to throw out at me.  I have the honor to look myself in the mirror and see past the lies to the truth that God has planted there: I am enough!  I am beautifully wonderfully made.

This brings us to the oils that can support you during this journey of healing and hope.  If you have experienced a similar situation, whether at a young age, older, once, twice, over the course of years, you too need healing and hope through your sexual trauma.  Because this is trauma.  It is trauma to your entire senses.  It is trauma to know something isn’t right and yet feeling you have no control, no power, to do anything about it.

Oil Blend:  Grapefruit, Cilantro, Fennel

Grapefruit is the oil of honoring one’s body.  When a person who has been abused, especially a girl, her view of her body is forever distorted.  She doesn’t look at her body the same again.  It is distorted by the lens of the lust that was projected on her.  She starts judging her body and blaming it for betraying her.  Grapefruit comes in and encourages her to not be cruel to her body through extreme exercising, dieting, and distortions of the truth.

Cilantro is the oil of releasing control.  When we make unholy vows we are saying extremes like: NEVER, EVER, and that’s the window for the enemy to play, because I has us become obsessed or attached to patterns or toxic thinking.  We don’t release the trauma that has been buried deep into our mind, body, heart, soul.  Cilantro releases our mental strain to bring to the light our true self.  We are able to shed the trap of the lies the enemy has been whispering into our ears.

Fennel is the oil of responsibility.  Abuse and trauma is NEVER the fault of the victim, the receiver, but we do have responsibility of how it dictates our life.  We can become disconnected to our natural signals.  Weakened sense of self and a lack of passion for life.  Fennel reminds us to not go to food to numb the pain, or to go to extremes, such as, eating disorders to “disappear” because we want to hide in shame.

These oils are all great for internal (I only advocate internal use with doTERRA oils), topically, and aromatically.

INTERNALLY USE:

Each of these are great in water or culinary dishes.  A drop of Grapefruit and Fennel make a wonderful refreshing water.  A drop of Cilantro is great in guacamole or in a salad dressing.

TOPICAL USE:

Place one drop of each in your palm with some fractionated coconut oil.  Rub together cup your hands together, bring to your nose and inhale a deep breath.  Experience the scents together.  Feel them enter into your cells, your mind, and your spirit. Do this 3 times.  I always like putting the remainder of the oils on the bottom of my feet and on any body part I feel is holding onto negative emotions that day.  Usually I know this by what body part I feel drawn to rub the oils on.  Examples would be my adrenals, my heart, my thyroid and even my breasts.

AROMATIC USE:

In a diffuser use one drop of Cilantro, 5 of Grapefruit, 1-3 of Fennel.

One final thought before we end in prayer.  You can also use tapping (EFT) as a way to help release the emotions of the traumas.  Use tapping in mediation, in prayer, or even on the go.  It is a powerful tool God has given to us to support us on this healing journey of hope!

Let’s end this chapter with prayer:

Heavenly Father…every time someone in my past has looked at me or touched me in lust rather than love…..I release them from my pain, my hurt, my anger.  By releasing them I am opening myself up to greater healing….I am opening myself up to release the trauma that has been buried with in my very soul. Through opening myself up to forgiveness I am reconnecting myself to be passionate about life.  I am taking responsibility of NOT let this trauma, abuse, experience to dictate my take and love of life.

I continue to thank you Lord for being there always for me, for sending me your Son to remind me how beautifully wonderfully made I am.  And when I look into the mirror and only see the lies the enemy tries to sell me, I thank you for the Holy Spirit’s constant vigilance in encouraging me and revealing the truth to me.

I end this prayer with asking my guardian angel to be by my side, for Saint Michael to continue to protect me from the snares of the enemy, and for our most precious blessed Mother to wrap me in her mantle to make me invisible to the enemy.  In Jesus’ most precious body and blood I am strengthened and set free each and every day…..AMEN!

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Body Peace…

I was generously blessed last week.  A friend was getting rid of many bags of clothes.  I was able to go through them and find a few things that sparked amazing joy for me.  I always love getting clothes versus shopping.  I don’t know why but there is something more intimate about community and helping others versus just going out and trying to “fend for yourself.”

Anyways….it’s situations like this that I have to be careful because clothes can trigger my dysmorphia.  In the past I would have had toxic thoughts like, ” Nothing in that bag will fit me….she’s smaller than me…”  It’s moments like that when I try on something from someone and it does fit I am reminded how my dysmorphia can play tricks on me.   So there were clothes that didn’t fit.  BUT… there were clothes THAT DID FIT.  it was a reminder to me that we are all uniquely and beautifully different.  we have different body types and so of course some clothes will fit and some won’t.  But more important it was  a reminder that a mental distortion disorder needs daily prayer and care to keep ORDER in the mind and the heart and soul.

I knew there would be a chance I would have a trigger so before I even tried on any clothes I did some self care.  I took a relaxing bath with Serenity and Breathe essential oil blends.  I then used my body oil that has lots of self love oils like: Grapefruit, Frankincense, Patchouli, Peace blend…..all with the intention to support my BODY SPIRIT CONNECTION so that my mind wouldn’t take me to dark places.

I had more fun trying on clothes than I think I ever have….even more fun than when I was 97 pounds right before my thyroid storm, when I was experiencing hyperthyroidism and losing ALL my muscle, strength, and flexibility.

I felt free and amazing and I felt like the beautiful warrior woman I know that I am.

Do you have a mental distortion of how you should look, feel, act?

How do you nurture that body-spirit connection?

do you take it to God?

And what essential oils do you think could help support your journey?

Sit with this….pray about this…write about this….share below about this!

Many hugs and blessings my dear followers…friends…family….

~Kelly 🙂

www.doterra.com/kellyfrick

Body (Armor) Honor…

Today I have the great opportunity to share on a Facebook Group about the essential oil Grapefruit.  This FB group is a private group for oilers to receive continual help/support about using essential oils and so much more.  This particular group comprises of many up-lines in this fabulous doTerra family.  This group is meant to share and learn from many leaders.

One of the leaders created an opportunity for a different oil to be featured for 16 days in March.  The 16 oils were already selected.  And us leaders were asked to volunteer if so desired to do a FB Live about that oil on a specific day.  When I saw Grapefruit was one of the oils….I KNEW I HAD TO PICK IT!

Why?!

Grapefruit is the essential oil that supports my dysmorphia!  I have shared many times here with you all about my healing and understanding of body dysmorphia; how it is multifaceted with triggers and causes.  But since one of the aspects has to do with brain chemistry it is something that I must armor myself about each and every day!

I armor myself with affirmations.  I armor myself with looking directly in the mirror and saying I LOVE YOU….YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!  I armor myself with nourishing food that won’t cause hormonal fluctuation.  I armor myself with prayer and renouncing ALL negative thoughts that are not from God that try to seep into my brain.

And I armor myself with GRAPEFRUIT essential oil!

Even if you don’t have dysmorphia do you find yourself ever:

  • hating your body
  • obsessing about food
  • excessive dieting
  • eating issues/disorders
  • anxiety over appearance

Do you desire to:

  • respect your body
  • meet your physical needs
  • have body acceptance
  • have a healthy relationship with food

Then maybe just maybe Grapefruit Essential Oil is the oil that could provide some support with your prayers for HONORING YOUR BODY!

Have you used Grapefruit Essential Oil?  Do you struggle with loving your body?

Sit with this…..pray about this….journal about it!  And connect with me by sharing below!

Many blessings and hugs my dear followers….friends….family…

~Kelly 🙂

www.mydoterra.com/kellyfrick

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