Clear the Mental Chatter

I have been wrestling with some internal work…..which is good but man it’s exhausting sometimes…..lol….

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So reminding myself of my pillars of health have been super helpful!

I have always found it interesting that when I am teaching and/or coaching with others……or putting together workshops…..well what ever the topic is seems to be exactly what I am needing at that time as well….I just didn’t realize it…lol….

As I have been diving deeper into prepping for a workshop I am having on the 6th….it’s been bringing up some of the old junk and yuck of my journey with dysmorphia!

Which has me realizing that I MUST continue to do the mental and emotional work…..which means….I MUST be working on my sleep, stress levels, and toxin load…..because those all contribute to my mental chatter: negative or positive.

I also realized that by not coming on here….and sharing with you all I wasn’t helping myself……and I DEFINITELY wasn’t serving, supporting, and loving you the best I could.  Because we all need each other…..we are connected through this great big world….and even if I can’t sit down and physically have a cup of tea with you….doesn’t mean I can’t show up here and have tea with you!

I think sometimes in the big world of blogging, FB, Instagram, and all other sorts of social media we forget to truly show up and connect….the same way we would at tea or a dinner party.

We get caught up in thinking we must have pictures just perfect…..so many hashtags….and all the other chatter…..and we forget just showing up is what is important.  Staying connected is what is important.

So this is me staying connected…..let you know that I have so much to share with you and I promise to quit thinking it all has to be “perfect”…..quit thinking you won’t want to hear this or that…..and to quit comparing what I am doing to what others are doing!

Because I am ME….and no one else can be ME!  And you need ME…..just as I am…..just like I need each of you to be just as you are!

Because WE ARE ENOUGH!

Have an amazingly blessed day.

Hugs and prayers always,

Kelly 😉

Save the Date

Good morning!

Can you believe it….Easter is tomorrow 🙌!

A quick reminder for all you lovely’s who live locally to me….save your seat…..there is going to be not only the regular drawing but a special something for EVERYONE to take home!!!

Sooo…even if you’re not local it’s a great place to come visit 😘😘😘…

I hope you will be able to join me for Mays wellness workshop all about the 4 systems that an AromaTouch technique is addressing and supporting!!!

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On a separate note…..I had some serious aha’s and thoughts these last few days during Holy Thursday mass and Good Friday services!

I look forward to sharing more with you soon!

Until then…you’ll have an amazingly blessed Easter tomorrow and remember to always….

Sit….pray….journal…tap….and oil up each day for the transformation you seek!!

Hugs and blessings always,

Kelly

Transformation Tuesday

I started out this year with purposing myself to hop on to Facebook EVERY TUESDAY to provide support and service with a facebook live.  I do this on my public page Kelly Frick: Connect as well as in two other groups:  my private clients and my team of leaders.

What started out as me wanting to be super intentional and consistent in showing up for something…..has turned into an amazing transformation in my own health….we are talking my mental health…..and how it effects my physical health.

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You see because of the traumas I experienced in my past….my fight, flight, freeze was always on hyper-alert.  And dysmorphia definitely distorts that and makes it even more intense.

So my excuse factor for why I couldn’t do something, show up somewhere, and keep a schedule was always…well full of excuses.

Over the years with ministry and business I have worked more and more on this.  But 3 years ago I made a commitment to myself that I had to truly think before I committed to something so I wouldn’t back out at the last minute.  So that once I set a date, put something on the schedule or told someone I would be there…..I HAD TO DO IT!!!

It was hard at first…..because it is not that I didn’t want to be true to my word….but you have to understand…..trauma….particularly sexual abuses…..creates this distortion in the brain that EVERYTHING is a potential danger.

I wanted to once and for all be braver and start rewiring my brain to believe and KNOW it was okay to have an amazing ministry and business, to support women, to be the best version of myself.

And that is what I have done.

I have consistently been showing up EVERY TUESDAY for a Facebook Live…..and every week I schedule wellness calls with clients…..every month I provide a wellness workshop…..AND I DO NOT CANCEL ON MYSELF OR ON THEM!!!

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What have you cancelled on that was due to your fight, flight, or freeze being in hyper alert?!

Sit with this….pray about it…..journal….tap….and oil up!

Many blessings always,

Kelly 🙂

PS….

Here is today’s Transformation Tuesday about preventative care…..

PPS…..

Get started today with this kit (click here).

Want a different kit?  (click here to create your own)

Once I receive a notification of your enrollment….I will reach out to you to get your first of many wellness calls set up to help you set up a 90 day coaching plan that will address YOUR WELLNESS GOALS, how to use your essential oils, plugged into private coaching and group…..and a welcome package will be mailed out to you!

What are you waiting for!?

 

Wellness Workshops

I remember the first time I ever experienced an AromaTouch technique…I was becoming certified to do the work on others.

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It was an amazing feeling. And I realized I needed to experience this more often. It was a way I could easily incorporate self care and love of self.

So I’m excited that this May’s Wellness Workshop is all about this amazing detox system I provide!

I will be covering what it’s all about….the 8 oils that are used and why…..

The AromaTouch Technique is an amazing experience to connect with our health.

It allows us to address and strengthen our physical and emotional health.

During May’s workshop we are going to dive deep into it how we can nurture our self care, detox, and support our whole health with the AromaTouch technique.

With Mother’s Day in May let’s honor our femininity, our self care needs, and see how we can start incorporating things like an AromaTouch technique on a consistent basis.

This months class will also have some simple “sample” options to experience.

There will also be purchase options available to take home that day.

Have you ever thought about how self care can help you with detoxing this spring?!

Save your seat 👇👇👇….

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Don’t forget to take a moment on this amazing Monday to sit, pray, reflect, Journal, tap…..and oil up!

Prayers and hugs always,

Kelly 💦💜

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UNPLANNED: Hope, Healing, Health

Words cannot describe the pain…the sorrow….the utmost intense emotions I felt last night…

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Yet the excitement….the joy…..the peace and healing….

Actually there is another time I felt the same exhaustion from a movie…..the Passion by Mel Gibson.

Last night my family and I attended a “red carpet” event of Unplanned.  Our parish church organized a viewing of the movie before it was to be released today.

Actually it was a woman from our church, who organized this event, who is truly passionate about serving others and bringing about light to the world.

This was not an easy movie to watch, for many reasons.

One…I know Abby Johnson!  I’m not close intimate friends with her….but one of my dear friends is!  She attends our parish, she is on the parish counsel with my husband, and I have had the blessing to visit with her on a few occasions at different gathers.

She IS a warrior woman!

She is a beautiful example of what I share here all the time….and at workshops……and presentations……which is:

TELL YOUR STORY!

Get it out of you….don’t allow it to hold you in shame…..in bondage!

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None of us have a pretty bow wrapped story.  They are all varying shades of messy.  But when we hide them deep within us we are allowing the enemy to separate us from our most amazing, loving FATHER!

Abby Johnson was brave and bold to share her story to THE WORLD!  And that alone will continue to be her true healing path.

Being open and honest about your story is a powerful instrument….tool…..of healing.

It is a way to forgiveness……GOD ALREADY FORGIVES US AND LOVES US…..but sometimes we stay in bondage of pain and shame and hurt…..because we haven’t forgiven others…..or most likely we haven’t FORGIVEN OURSELVES.

That un-forgiveness can lead us to so much pain but most of all it can and will effect our health…..first our emotional health…..then our mental…..and finally our physical!

Because the body is an amazing creation!  Our body knows it’s connected to our mind, our heart, our spirit, our emotions.  It doesn’t try to separate all that we are made up of, as so many doctors or even us, try to do too often.

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For me this movie was moving beyond words…..and also very healing.  Knowing that the anniversary of the loss of my sweet precious Sam is this weekend, and the D&C that took place on the 1st…..well let’s just say lent is already a difficult time for me most years…..yet also healing and renewing…..but this movie definitely had me doing some ugly crying!

It had me reflect on my own path of life…..my own wounds……my own pain and choices.

I have always been a huge pro-lifer……but I use to not always be as loving and compassionate in how I approached the subject.

And after one of my rapes….even being a pro-lifer…..there was a brief moment of panic when I thought…..”what if I get pregnant?”…..

And finally my saddest thought that took me quite a bit to heal from was when I did loose my precious baby several years back……the shame I had of relief!

My husband and I had struggled for so many years to conceive our daughter and had fought super hard to try to have another. We had finally given into the peace of:  it was not meant to be.

Yet when our daughter was nearly 8 we discover we are pregnant, I was less than thrilled.  All of a sudden I was having to figure out how I was going to adjust to all the changes it was going to bring.  We had BIG plans that year….we had a routine.  WE WERE COMFORTABLE.

I should’ve been thrilled but I wasn’t.  I had just gotten my health back on track and here this precious baby growing inside of me was going to create havoc with all that.   I was selfish in my thoughts.  That’s not too harsh….it’s the truth.

My dearest of friends consoled me and comforted me.  She was with me through the whole journey.  She would ask me the nitty gritty questions….the hard questions.  And would remind me deep down what I really felt.  Which was that I REALLY DID WANT THIS BABY BUT I WAS AFRAID TO WANT IT!  Because what if…..!?

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And then WHAT IF DID HAPPEN……and I felt the immense amount of guilt and shame.  I blamed myself for waaay too long.  But luckily by that point in my journey I had my safe people that I could be vulnerable and honest with….like this friend…..and know I wouldn’t be judged for having human thoughts and feelings.

Many people will go to this movie because they support the cause…the message….the truth.

Many will NOT go to it because they don’t want to hear it.

Some will even waiver because it was given the rating of R…..which is hogwash….our daughters under 18 can go to have a legal abortion but not old enough to go to this movie!?

But I think EVERYONE SHOULD GO FOR THE REDEMPTION MESSAGE they will receive from it.

This movie is about so much more than exposing PLANNED PARENTHOOD……its truly about LOVE, FORGIVENESS, JOY, PEACE…..HEALING!

Have you had an ugly kind of cry recently?  I honestly think everyone should about 2-3 times a year….it’s cleansing for the soul….cleansing for the emotions…..and yes cleansing for the body!

Go to this movie….have an ugly cry…..sit with it…..pray about it…..tap and oil up……and see how it moves your emotions, mind, heart, soul, energy in a different direction!

Many blessings and hugs always dear ones,

Kelly 🙂

PS….

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To learn more….Unplanned premiers TODAY, March 29 at a theater near you.

To see the trailer and find the nearest theater visit https://www.unplannedfilm.com

For resources on post-abortive counseling and support visit http://hopeafterabortion.com

For other resources and ways to find assistance with a crisis pregnancy in your area visit

http://www.priestsforlife.org/crisis.html

If you would like to know about 40 Days for Life visit https://40daysforlife.com

For more information about Abby’s ministry, And Then There Were None, which helps abortion worker get out of the industry visit https://abortionworker.com

 

Hormone Hell

There have been times in my past where I truly believed I was living in hell with my hormones…

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Heck there are times I still feel that way…lol…

I started experiencing wonky-ness with my cycles early on…..by the time I was in the military my hormones, cycles, health was so wacky I had to be on bedrest usually the first 2 days of my period.

Because the military did not like this…..well they pretty much bullied me into getting on to the pill…..even though I was morally apposed to it…..I didn’t know what else to do.  I felt stuck…..I felt conflicted.

I am so grateful that today there is such amazing info out there for young girls and women to be empowered on why the PILL is PHYSICALLY unhealthy……EMOTIONALLY unhealthy…..AND SPIRITUALLY unhealthy!

I see my beautiful daughter and see how her hormones are looking like they are similar to mine…..BUT……the difference is she has tools and support that I didn’t have.  She is able to recognize how her nutrition, exercise, sleep, stress, toxic load….and so much more effects her cycles.

We as women have enough to deal with….especially if you are challenged with any body distortions and food fears…..we don’t need our hormones to add to the HELL!

Instead we want to welcome our hormones…say HELLO BEAUTIFUL YOU!

Because those hormones can actually play into the mental chatter that can contribute to the body distortions and food fears!

What is one thing you can do today to empower your hormone health….to want to say HELLO to them rather than “ah hell”…..!?

Sit with this….pray about it….journal about it…..tap about it…..then oil up!!!

Many blessings and hugs always,

Kelly 🙂

PS….

You live in, near, around Georgetown, Texas?  You won’t want to miss this Saturdays Wellness Workshop!  Register here!

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Today’s video…..I’m so tired….lol!  How coffee has been effecting my hormones….what I’m doing to correct it….and a glimpse on a freebie for Saturday’s workshop!

PPS….

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Strengthen your true self and worthiness!

We are bombarded with images and expectations of what we should look like, eat, dress, be……ALL around us….CONSTANTLY…..

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Girls….teens…..women…..WE DO NOT HAVE IT EASY today in setting healthy boundaries….saying no to the mental chatter, the societal pressures.   And this can wear down a woman’s sense of self-worth…..and then not showing up to serve herself and then serving others.

You see how this can be a vicious cycle!

I understand…..I have been there…..and even though I am not perfect, because dysmorphia can definitely play nasty tricks in the mind…..I am much better about the mental chatter than I have ever been in my life!

Part of my drive and perseverance to continually walk with integrity and worthiness of self is knowing that I am showing up each day with clients and customers and teaching them this all important message.  I am providing workshops for it.  It IS my message!

Yes there are days I can feel like a fraud…..wondering how on earth can I possibly be teaching this….coaching on this….writing on this……when I don’t feel it 100% of the time…..heck there are some days I don’t even feel it 50%……BUT….

I KNOW I CAN…..I WILL…I HAVE TO…..because the more I coach, teach, share…..the more I live it….breath it….embrace it…..believe it….

Because I DESIRE to be THE BEST VERSION OF MYSELF not only for myself BUT FOR OTHERS….

I know the more I transform my true self and embrace my body’s beauty I am able to provide hope and healing for others to TRANSFORM THEIR IMAGE OF THEMSELVES!

This is why I LOVE TODAY’S BOGO……

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💧OnGuard.

Physical Support:
Clean Surfaces/all purpose cleaner

immune/respiratory boost

Energizing

*antioxidant

*soak apples with it!

*Use on bottom of feet every morning

 

Emotional Support:

Defends against negative energies

Strengthens inner self/inner integrity

Protect personal space

Set clear boundaries

Live in true self.

 

💧Slim & Sassy…

Physical Support:
Metabolism

Manage hunger/sugar cravings

Diuretic

*take internally before meals

*body brush with it

 

Emotional Support:

Addresses emotional patterns related to weight and food.

Releases emotions of moralizing food/weight.

Helps us rise above self judgement.

Encourages us to embrace our body’s beauty.

Reminds us: WE ARE WORTHY!!!

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So my challenge to you today…….how are you going to walk in worthiness and integrity of self today?!

Sit with this….pray…..journal…..tap……and oil up!

Hugs and prayers always,

Kelly 🙂

***BONUS: If you scroll all the way to the end you’ll find recipes :)….

PS….Today’s VIDEO with a tapping SESSION :)….

PPS…
💜This BOGO is today only 😬😳…..so don’t hesitate to nab it up….

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  • Want to start with more than these two oils?!  Want to snag a starter kit and receive even more oils for free?  Restore and Cleanse can create a new fresh start not only physically but mentally, emotionally!  Click here for this starter and today”s BOGO….and other freebies :)….
  • Have something else in mind on how you want to start?!  Contact me…I am here to help you get started with what is going to meet your best needs!

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When you start your TRANSFORMATION Health/Wellness Journey with me:

  • I will schedule 3 FREE coaching sessions
  • Help you get to the root of your wellness goals
  • create plans
  • receive a welcome package with supplies to help you get started with your oils
  • Plugged into a private Facebook group full of daily tips, tricks, recipies
  • and so much more!

 

Are you open to invest in your WELLNESS?

Rather than fear the illness?  

I am ready to  TRANSFORM your WHOLE HEALTH:  Mind Body Soul Spirit!

Are you ready to receive?

Many blessings on this amazing BOGO day!

hugs and prayers always!

Love on your family with Oregano & Melaleuca

Today’s BOGO is truly a mainstay in our house…..heck many of the oils are….lol….but these two are a MUST!

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My daughter and I are both HSP (Highly Sensitive People)……thus we need to continually make sure we are not taking on other peoples junk…..as well as not allowing ourselves to become weakened by overpowering personalities and energetic vampire like people.

Therefore we don’t hesitate to use Oregano & Melaleuca every day in one way or another!!

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Here is what you need to know so you can protect you family and your emotional energy with these two oils:

💧Oregano…

Physical Support:

  • Clean/Purify counters, cutting boards, bathrooms.
  • Support immune system, gestion, respiratory.
  • High antioxidant when taken internally. 

Emotional Support:

  • Removes negativity.
  • Teaches us humility, to let go of pride.
  • End destructive habits, attachments, rigidity.

💧Melaleuca…

Physical Support:

  • Rejuvenates and cleanses skin.
  • Supports immune system internally.
  • Protects against seasonal junk….think sniffles, sneezes, red puffy eyes.
  • Purifies finger and toenails.

Emotional Support:

  • Helps us recognize toxic relationship.
  • Release toxic relationships.
  • Creates empowerment, resilience.
  • Feel safe.

TODAY’S VIDEO!

Do you have some toxic relationships you need to feel encouraged to end?  Need to release?  Is it effecting your physical health…immunity!?  What about your families?!

Sit….pray…journal….tap….and oil up about this……and see where the Holy Spirit leads you….and how He will transform you from within if you will let Him!

Have an amazingly blessed day…

Hugs and prayers always,

Kelly 🙂

PS…

💜This BOGO is today only 😬😳…..so don’t hesitate to nab it up….

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NEED HELP ORDERING?

 

 

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When you start your TRANSFORMATION Health/Wellness Journey with me:

 

  • I will schedule 3 FREE coaching sessions
  • Help you get to the root of your wellness goals
  • create plans
  • receive a welcome package with supplies to help you get started with your oils
  • Plugged into a private Facebook group full of daily tips, tricks, recipies
  • and so much more!

 

Are you open to invest in your WELLNESS? Rather than fear the illness?  

I am ready to  TRANSFORM your WHOLE HEALTH:  Mind Body Soul Spirit!

Are you ready to receive?

Many blessings on this amazing BOGO day!

 

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