I am beyond excited today!!!
It was extremely hard for me to contain myself to not get up and just start writing/blogging but I practiced some good discipline….lol….after all if I am spending all my time blogging well that sort of defeats my “fasting” from Facebook, right!?
Well today is September 1st! Thus the beginning of my new chapter…my new challenge…in life. I had a dear friend last week express how she loves how I am continually challenging myself. I laughed cause I am sure many people think I am just bonkers. But I can’t help it…it is my nature :)!
So anyone who is new to reading this…I have chosen to “unplug” from many modern conveniences during the month of September. The point of it is to challenge myself in re-evaluating time management, as well as true necessities in life.
I have many stores that are within a mile of where I live that allows me to truly get everything and anything I could possibly need to manage a month of responsibilities and then more. I can grocery shop, household needs, clothing, reading, spiritual….you name it I truly have it within arms distance.
Therefore, I cannot drive for any shopping this month. I decided to add the element of only getting onto Facebook but once a week on Sunday for approximately an hour ( a little in the morning….and any follow ups in the evening).
What’s my point….my purpose? My purpose is to slow down again….to remember there is a time, a place, a season for things.
I thought it was fitting for me since I just recently made some pretty big changes in my life that I will be sharing with you all over the next month.
I wanted to really start my new chapter with a renewed sense of time and needs.
Needs: about 3 years ago I did this whole purging of stuff from our home and in the process it was a wonderful cleaning of the mind. But just as prayer is a practice and discipline you must do each day to not get rusty, it is easy to find yourself starting to slip into old habits of holding on to stuff you really don’t need and/or buying stuff you really don’t need.
Thus, the purpose behind only walking is to examine while I am shopping I have to realize I have only a backpack….and how heavy do I really want to fill it….what in my basket is a true need and what is a want!
Time: We have become spoiled and taken it for granted that we can just jump into our cars and zip from this place to that place. And sometimes we get so caught up with going going going that we forget just how long it may take to do something or get somewhere….thus over budgeting our time. We all suffer from this. We add stress to our bodies, our minds, our souls. We take time from our kiddos….our friends. We become impatient with other people around us….less loving….less compassionate because by golly we have places to go, people to see, things to do!!!!
Thus, by walking it reminds a person: how bad do I really need to go to the store….how much time do I spend in the car zipping from store to store….and possibly not managing my time as well as I thought I was.
Both of these tie into the added element of Facebook. We all know FB can be a huge time sucker and it really isn’t a need….we can survive without it!
Do not get me wrong….I love being able to connect with dear friends, family on FB. I also enjoying reading about other like minded people with some of the things I follow on FB. But we can become obsessive and even egotistical when we spend too much time in anything that is that sort of setup of open dialogue. We can obsessively check who read a post. We can egotistically think we are the only ones who can offer certain thoughts, or wisdom, or information. It is always good to give ourselves a check and balance.
I am not sharing something that is foreign to anyone. I am just willing to be out here, a vulnerable, open book for all to see and read! NONE of us are perfect….and anyone reading this who may find themselves saying I don’t ever get obsessive or egotistical about my FB posting (or anything in life) is lying to themselves because we are all vulnerable to it. And we all need to check ourselves from time to time!
Okay well…..I think that is enough for now….I have the sweetest little girl who is ready for me to play with her! And that is one date I do not plan on being late for :)….
Blessings and prayers to each and everyone of you!