“I Told You So!”

How many of you LOVE this statement!?!?!

I don’t know about you but it just makes me feel all sorts of warm and fuzzy inside when a person says this to me!  It really encourages me to want to open up to them and feel vulnerable.  It causes me to stop and think oh yes this person REALLY LOVES ME because “they told me so!”…..

NOT…..

Okay so I know that was all a bit passive aggressive…lol….but there is a point…

We live in a world where we are bombarded with EVERYONE’s opinion and EVERYONE is willing to speak (with their one mouth)….but NOT LISTEN (with their TWO ears!)…..

Recently a situation took place in my life that really rocked my world for about 20 minutes….but once it was all said and done….I realized the reason I was so shook up was….

  • Not because I was going to have to deal with the work the situation caused…
  • Not because of all the tapping and oiling up I was going to have to do to eleviate the negative experience….
  • Not because it happened at all….

No what rocked my world that truly brought me to tears was the FEAR of HEARING:

I TOLD YOU SO!!!

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I DID NOT want to hear those words come from people who claim to love me, in a time where I felt most emotional and vulnerable, when I NEEDED LOVE AND COMPASSION MOST!

What many of us don’t realize and don’t think about when those words are said is….

  • The person receiving that negative statement already is internally beating themselves up about whatever it is.
  • They already are reassessing how something could have been done differently.
  •  They are trying to process and heal possibly from an experience.
  • And they need love and support more than ever. 
  • They need to feel safe not scrutinized.

Now since we can’t prevent others, especially “loved” ones from using hurtful verbiage toward us we can do the next best things:

  • We can pray.
  • We can journal.
  • We can tap.
  • We can use specific oils.
  • And we can forgive: them and ourselves!

All of these release the negative emotions surrounded from the experience as well as the hurtful words.  It allows us to not hold those negative emotions, negative currents of energy to get locked into our physical body to cause any physical harm.

So what DID I DO!?

When the incident occurred the first emotion that popped into my head I started tapping on it right there at the location.  I didn’t care what people thought as they observed me.  What’s awesome about tapping is in a public situation you don’t have to do the full formula you can tap on specific spots.

After I tapped a round with my prayer, I selected an oil to help facilitate the tapping as well as bring my system back into balance and focus on the task at hand.

Through the next round of tapping… that is when I discovered my true fears from the situation….I was then able to concentrate my next round of tapping with that intention.

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As we enter into the Holiday’s, Thanksgiving being next week, there may be situations like this that come up.  And we may feel like our boundaries are being infringed on.

Because honestly I think….”I TOLD YOU SO”….is a lack of respect of boundaries….as well as unloving.

So since some people don’t know how to NOT VOMIT their junk on us…..WE MUST SET HEALTHY BOUNDARIES….to protect ourselves….to protect our health and well being….OUR SPIRIT!

I recently posted on Facebook and on my YouTube about boundaries…..to learn more and to even do a round of tapping with me check them out here/below!!!

Empower yourself today, this week, next week, always…..to set healthy boundaries so you don’t have to fearing hearing the dreaded: I TOLD YOU SO!

As always….pray….journal….tap….and oil up!

Blessings, prayers and hugs…

Kelly 😉

As always if you want to learn more reach out to me…

You can find me on Facebook to private message me at:  Kelly Frick: Connect

Comment below on this blog!  Or email: kellyfrickconnect@gmail.com

You can also find me on:

Pinterest, Twitter, Instagram, and LinkedIn

I’m here to serve and bless you when you are ready and open to start your own healing and hope journey with your whole health! I would love to be your guide…your coach….your mentor.

 

Victorious Veteran’s

Every year our church celebrates Veteran’s day by asking those who have served to stand and be recognized and prayed over.

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August 1992 I stepped on to a plane to enter a season of life that I had no idea would bring me to my hubby.

For 2 months I completed more push-ups, sit ups, running, marching, and bunk drills than I can possibly count….or even keep track of.

I will admit there were times in the past that I never really thought about what it meant to have served in the military.  To me it was a means to the end.  I had grown up in a very small town.  There were so many factors but the point being is I saw the military as truly the best option for me to be the best version of myself.

While I was in the Navy there were days I really hated it.  I wondered what was I thinking.  It was also a time in my life when I continued to received more sexual harassment than I care to count.  BUT…..there truly were amazing blessings that took place.

First, I met my husband.   Because of him I was able to vocalize my wounds, my rape, my abuses, and so much more.

When I met my husband I felt safe.  I finally felt like I could truly be 100% myself.

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Boot camp alone was healing.  It had been that summer that the penetration rape had taken place.  For me boot camp was about “beating” the emotions out of me.  Or better yet stuffing it all in and becoming as tough as I could possibly be, therefore “I could never be hurt again!”

What I really learned from my service in the military was another way to be an intentional disciple!

When you serve in the military it is NOT about you……IT’S ABOUT THE GREATER GOOD!  You make sacrifices, you put your desires aside to do for others, you have days you really want to throw in the towel but you know others are depending on you so you stand up taller and dig deep to show up and be all you were made to be aka hopefully be the best version of yourself!

And most of all you truly learn what it means to do team work and to be a leader!!!

So today I am able to reflect on my military service with humbling pride.  I don’t reflect on it anymore as “ugh” or “oh yeah I did that….”  No today I reflect and am so very grateful for my years of service.  Years that formed my early adult years.  Years that taught me I was much stronger than I ever would have thought.  And years that introduced me to my amazing husband.

Today I am also reflecting on all the men and women who have made amazing sacrifices for their country.  Who have said yes to provide us the freedoms we sometimes don’t even thing about…..and no to so many of their own desires.

This week reflect on your own dreams….your own sacrifices…..your own ways you serve: your family, your community, your Lord!

Remember to pray, journal, tap, and oil up!!!

Many blessings….prayers….hugs…

Kelly 🙂

PS…..this month is super exciting to start a wellness journey or taking your empowerment to the next level! Check out the November Deals Tab above!

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As always when you’re open and ready to begin your own healing and hope journey with your whole health I would love to be your guide…your coach….your mentor.

You can find me on Facebook to private message me:

Kelly Frick: Connect

Or message or comment below here on this blog!

Or email:

kellyfrickconnect@gmail.com

You can also find me on:

Pinterest, Twitter, Instagram, and LinkedIn

I’m here to serve and bless you when you are ready!

 

Balance: Retreat & Restore

“The soul loves moderation in all things. Whenever the human body lacks measure, and eat and drinks or something like that unbalances it, the powers of the soul are wounded… So in all things let people maintain a proper balance”

– Hildegard of Bingen

I fell in love with St. Hildegard years ago. I knew she, along with a few other amazing females Saints would be the patron saints of my business and ministry.

I am reflecting tonight on all I am going to grow and learn about as I prepare for an adventure that will take me out of pocket for almost 3 weeks. I can’t wait to share more here.

What I’m especially excited about this adventure is how it is going to allow me to reflect, meditate, pray, and in sort of way retreat to focus on some of my personal and professional goals.

I’m going to take the opportunity to detox my mind, body, and soul. To detox from the clutter and chatter and unnecessary. To get back to simplicity of reflecting on what is truly my why and next steps of being that intentional disciple of life for me, my family, friends, everyone….

What is my why?

How can I make a difference?

One connection at a time.

One life at a time.

One drop at a time!

So I will be silent here for almost 3 weeks and will be back to share all I reflect on by November 3rd!

What is your why?

Do you need to unplug to rebalance your mind, body, soul health?

Blessings,

Kelly 😘

my.doterra.com/kellyfrick

October: It takes guts!

I feel like I’ve been so remiss with coming here and sharing….but I realize I have to give myself grace because when we don’t give ourselves grace well it can mess with our physical health: especially our GUT! But more on that at the bottom of this post…spoiler alert…it has to do with some great freebies and deals this month 🙌🙌🙌!

The last time I shared here it was during doTERRAs Dream convention.

It was so powerful, inspiring, and confirming!

It reminded me the seed God had planted in my heart years ago about empowering women.

It inspired me to continue to be ME as I show up in helping others. And it filled me up as if I had gone to a spiritual retreat!

It was truly amazing! And it was life changing for me!!!! Some may think this is too strong of a thought or statement but that’s ok…lol…because for me I knew it was.

How?!

I came back determined even more to be that voice for women who don’t use their voice. To reach out and ask these women if they are open to find their voice?!

I came back fired up to remind not only myself but those who are seeking natural solutions and game plans for their wellness/health journey that I’m here for them!

I came back knowing we need to love each other at whatever walk of life we are each at and that means if someone isn’t ready to address their emotions of trauma that’s ok….but let’s address their other health needs…..let’s equip you with where you are at right now on your health journey!!!

These amazing gifts from the earth aren’t just hippy-dippy…..

They empower us to take our own health into our hands….to partner with other practitioners and healers and docs and coaches who are willing to help us incorporate natural solutions and practices to empower our health and wellness!!!

And it gave me the confidence to want to reach out to specifically say and ask if a person would like to partner with me in helping change people’s lives!

I have an amazing vision of raising up young women to not only take charge of their health….use their voice…heal….but to see they can do the same for others! They can be financially free! They can learn even more about themselves and do some amazing internal growth as they grow a business of empowering others!

And if that wasn’t enough…..my last two Thursdays Empowerment workshops for survivors of sex trafficking….well it drove home all I experienced at convention of: I AM a mission within a mission just as doTERRA is….and that is why I’m so proud to be involved with such an amazing company!

So my bold question for you this day is:

Are you open to start your HOPE, HEALING, HEALTH JOURNEY!?

Are you ready to finally say YOU ARE WORTH IT and YOU ARE ENOUGH?!

✨October Specials✨

This month is all about gut health!

Enjoy this video to learn more about your gut health!

This video is all about the new oils and products that were revealed during convention! Amazing!!

Amazing freebies this month!

Let’s get started!

You can follow these steps:
1. Go to my website: www.mydoterra.com/kellyfrick
2. Click Join & Save
3. Choose wholesale customer
4. Fill in your information. Make sure to enter my ID as your enroller: 3345849
5. Choose the kit you like best.

**** The TWO MOST popular ways to start with me are the Home Essentials Kit (SKU: 41180001) & the Family Essentials Kit (SKU: 60200540).

6. Enter your payment info.

After you place your starter kit order, I will receive an email confirmation and send out a few bonus goodies as a thank you for getting started with me. I will also reach out to you via email to schedule our 30-min virtual zoom welcome call to empower you how to use your oils to support your health and wellness goals.

Got questions or need help placing your order?

Email me at kellyfrickconnect@gmail.com

Let’s get connected!!!

Amazing Aha’s…

I was up late last night because my mind was whirling with all the amazing beauty I’m surrounded by.

It was also whirling in the amazing freedom I feel in my health journey.

Last week was full of women empowerment: a workshop for women who were once trapped in sex trafficking and a Facebook live about thriving with dysmorphia.

Anyone in a healing journey knows we never fully arrive….but it’s the journey that gives us amazing growth in thriving.

An amazing thing with thriving and growth is things in the past that could potentially be triggers can take place and all of a sudden you will realize you’re absolutely fine!

That happens for me this last weekend. As I was getting ready to come and attend dōTERRAs convention I was concerned there could be some triggers with the Dysmorphia.

After all I was going to meet people for the first time I have respected and admired.

I was going to catch up with old friends I haven’t seen in over a year.

And I realized I wasn’t doing all the yucky mind stuff. Instead I was excited. And I felt light in my step. And I felt free of my own self judgment and comparing.

And today I had the opportunity to feel the fullness of that freedom when my daughter and I were walking around taking in down town Salt Lake City before all the chaos was about to break loose!

As my daughter and we’re deciding on the direction we were to go in we ran right into my darling friend, mentor, soul sister and into one of the amazing women I have been blessed to learn from and to know from afar for almost 2 years now.

And what did I feel? Love, excitement, joy, peace….and no self judgment or comparison…only freedom!

I saw these two amazing warrior women who I admire and saw all their gifts and talents for theirs and saw all mine for mine.

I saw how we were each so different yet facets that overlap just enough for each of us to draw strength from each other, encourage each other, yet stay true to our inner selves….to be uniquely authentic to ourselves and our own personal missions and goals.

I’m so grateful I had that amazing moment on the street corner because it was confirmation for me that I have come so far and it’s okay to be super vulnerable with others because that vulnerability gives us strength in our healing journey.

It allows us to see each other as God sees each of us: beautifully wonderfully made!

Cause these two women are!! They are beautifully wonderfully made….and so am I! And I am truly enough!

I have entered into a new level, new layer, a new path of this healing journey. And it’s super exciting!

Where are you at on your healing journey?!

What “aha’s” have you had recently that deserves celebrating?

Take a moment to sit with it….journal about it…smile about it and as always oil up and tap about it!

Find the freedom of knowing: you are enough!

My hugs, love, and prayers always!

Kelly

As always when you’re open and ready to begin your own healing and hope journey with your whole health I would love to be your guide…your coach….your mentor.

Check out this months deals in the tab for September Specials!

You can find me on Facebook to private message me:

Kelly Frick: Connect

Or message me here on my blog!

email:

kellyfrickconnect@gmail.com

You can also fine me on:

Pinterest, Twitter, Instagram, and LinkedIn

Im here to serve and bless you when you are ready!

Dysmophia: The Circus Mirror

Today I had an amazing opportunity to share, coach, and start supporting some amazing survivors of sex trafficking with my “You are more than your body!” workshop series.

Yes, you read that correct! These women were used and abused in ways that many of us can’t possibly imagine.

One of the many challenges they face and are needing to heal from is how they see themselves. How they see their body.

These women…more than anyone is at risk of dysmorphia…their bodies were treated as objects of use and abuse that they are at greater of this mental disorder.

But they are not the only ones at risk!

anyone is…

Did you know 1 in 50 women AND men have Dysmorphia?!

Tomorrow join me in Facebook at noon central to learn more about how Dysmorphia effects a person and what it looks like. Plus my personal journey with it!

Hope to see you tomorrow on Facebook!

Have an amazing evening and many blessings dear one!

Hugs and prayers always,

Kelly

Self Care = Strength

What am I doing this month on Facebook?!

Today’s video….you can watch by clicking on the link above!

I’m going to get raw and super real and vulnerable this month on Facebook! So if you don’t already follow me….please click this link: Facebook: Kelly Frick: Connect to follow me!

This will ensure you don’t miss any postings or videos when I go live this month.

I’m going to talk about topics that not everyone likes to admit about them selfs….things that are important to bring out so the true healing can take place:

  • Orthorexia
  • Disordered eating
  • Dysmorphia
  • Chronic exercise
  • Self hate

And how through these challenges we can grow stronger to realize:

WE ARE ENOUGH!

And that we are NOT our body!

I’m super excited to share deeper with each of you my hope and healing journey into true, full, whole health: mind body soul spirit!

And as always if you find value in what I share with you please spread the word and share my blog, youtube, Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, Pinterest or even twitter with others!

I have a passion to bless and serve as many people as I can in my lifetime…and I know I can do this one drop at a time…and one person at a time….and you can help me with that mission!

Have a wonderful warrior Wednesday. And as always remember you are wonderfully beautifully made!

Blessings, hugs, and prayers always!

Kelly 🤗

September: Love equals Self-Care

I’ve been reflecting this weekend on what September has in store for me! There are sooo many amazing things I’m planning and have scheduled.

For starters, next week I will be providing a 4 part workshop series for women who have been rescued from sex trafficking. I have modified my “I am Enough” presentations to address their specific needs.

I am beyond thrilled to have been asked to come in and present and love on these ladies with empowerment tools like journaling, eft, and oils.

But we are also going to be digging into the deep stuff of healthy relationships with our body and food and even our mind. We will address topics like eating disorders, dysmorphia, orthorexia, and more. We will talk about how when our sexuality has been used and abuse how that effects us emotionally and why we are more susceptible to these mental disorders.

This has been interesting for me because it means I have to put myself back into the thick of when I felt my weakest and how I felt. It has me having to really dig into the dark parts of my mental disconnects and realize even some areas that well…..weren’t as healed as I thought.

But that’s also the amazing thing about this… it has me continually working on my healing so I can be that light and guide of hope and healing.

As I have been preparing…I realized even though I’ve done various workshops and presentations in the past on these topics I’ve never done an on-line event with it. And I need to….not just for me but for those who want to do private healing through some of this.

Sometimes we aren’t ready to be that open and vulnerable in a group of others….it needs to happen eventually…but it’s ok to give yourself grace to heal in your way….in your time….and with God loving you the entire time.

I will announce the date of the on-line mini-retreat soon.

But to give you a sneak peak of what to expect it’s a 4 part series/event:

1. The story of our body: how and why we are made.

  • Our stories
  • Healing, hope, health

2. The gift of self care through:

  • Baths, walks, massage
  • Podcasts, books, journaling
  • High vibration food and sleep

3. The Mirror: Saying I Love You!

  • Mental disconnects like eating disorders, dysmorphia, addictions
  • Emotions, hormones, what does this all mean? What are the roots?

4. Emotions: acknowledge, embrace, release, rewrite…

  • Understanding how all of the above are important.
  • How eft and essential oils support this healing journey.

I can’t wait to release the date and further details!!!

On a totally separate note…

This month in the amazing dōTERRA world of these powerful gifts from the earth…there is a deal that I have NEVER seen during my 2 years of partnering with them!

They have several of their start up kits that are 20% off….which really if you look at the retail price they are over 40% off….saving hundreds of dollars!!!

These are the start up kits:

So if you have been on the fence about if natural remedies are for your physical health, your homes health, and your emotional health…trying to figure out if it is right for you…now may just very well be the time!

In addition to these amazing savings you will receive FREE from me personally:

  • Empowered Wellness overviews (anywhere from 2-5 FREE…the coaching doesn’t stop!)
  • A welcome package with goodies to get you started on using your oils right away! As well as special hands on learning how to use these tools and support!
  • Plugged into a private group full of continual support, education, training, coaching, videos, and more!
  • Unlocking continual savings and freebies!
  • Unlocking potential freedoms!
  • And the final initial gift is the Hope Oil from me! This means not only do you receive a special free oil right away but you have the amazing feeling of knowing that 100% of this oils cost goes to stopping human trafficking and this is FREE from me! You are helping me help others have their freedom!

Are you open and ready to start this amazing hope and healing journey with your health?

Are you open and ready to start you’re transformation?

Are you open and ready to start your self care this September?!

Reach out…message me….contact me on Facebook through messenger…..or email kellyfrickconnect@gmail.com comment and share below…..let’s connect!

I’m here waiting….I’m holding space for you….I’m praying for you…..because I know your are worth it…..I know you’re enough!

The question is do you know it?!

Hugs and prayers always!

Kelly

my.doterra.com/kellyfrick

PS…this is my favorite way to help you get started:

✨September Specials✨

Save an extra 20% off the Home Essentials Kit!?! (and others, but this is my favorite). This truly is the best prices of the year to get started! This kit is retail $366.67 and is now on sale for only $220 this month only for people new to dōTERRA!

This month’s promotions are:

-Save 20% when you enroll with a specific kit (see image above)

-Free 15 mL Lime with purchase of 125 PV LRP order (Sept. 1-15th)

-10% off Cardamom this month

-Baby Line is back in stock for a limited time, and it’s not just for babies

PPS….

Check out my YouTube channel for over 200 videos of content that supports you in this oils hope and healing journey with oils and more! It gives you just a taste of how I serve and support others!

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